The Manifestation
The Universe is always giving us gifts.
Always.
But are your eyes open to see them?
Can you see and allow what you’ve created with your thoughts, words, emotions, and actions?
When I had the ultrasound that confirmed that I am indeed having twins, a dear friend of ours offered to watch Sagey (age five) and Phoenix (age 2) on Thursday mornings for a few hours “so you can rest on the couch, Taylor, and put some meat on those bones!” (Said in the most adorable and delicious Irish accent you can imagine).
One Thursday morning, as I was dropping the kids at my friend’s home, I drove by the prettiest house I have ever seen. It was, in fact, a white castle. I said out loud “OMG, that is the prettiest house I’ve ever seen. I wanna buy it.”
My kids giggled in the back seat, and exclaimed that it was, indeed, a castle (or “cattil” in Phoenix-speak).
After finishing my practice at The Pink House, I called Philippe to ask if he could pick up the kids from our friend’s house. I was exhausted from being pregnant with twins and needed to rest on the couch.
He drove by the same house—said the exact same words—the kids giggled, and on they went.
Fast forward to the next day. Philippe says to me “Oh, there’s a white castle for sale a few doors up from Dianne.”
“Oh I know, I wanna buy that house,” I said matter-of-factly.
“Me too!” Philippe exclaimed.
“Let’s buy it” I said with an air of confidence that is evident when something is a “done deal,” and we smiled at each other in the same way we smiled when I had the epiphany on my mat seven and a half years ago and said to (my then boyfriend) Philippe “We’re going to open a yoga studio and it’s called PRANA POWER YOGA,” and he said, without a pause and very matter-of-factly, “OK.”
Three months later we opened our first PRANA POWER YOGA—in Newton Corner. We opened three more and a Café’ in six years to come.
When things are lined up, they’re lined up.
When they’re meant to happen, they’re meant to happen.
But I digress…back to the story.
Two days later we saw the white castle on the inside (it was Yom Kippur so the seller’s real estate agent didn’t call me back for two days). Within twenty seconds of stepping foot into the white castle, I said to the seller’s real estate agent “I’m like no buyer you’ve ever met. I don’t play games. I don’t mess around. I am extremely honest and up front. We are going to buy this house. It is, in fact, our house. So you can stop showing it. It’s a done deal.”
She paused for about five seconds, and then said she’d like to work with me as a Consultant since she’d never met anyone like me before.
I laughed and immediately began giving her suggestions (“You gotta get off dairy, Sister, and about that soy…”).
We bought the house—done deal—8 days later.
In a market that is not too friendly toward home-buyers of white castles who are entrepreneurs who put just about every dollar that comes into their Yoga Centers and Café back into their studios and café…saying that this manifestation was a miracle is somewhat of an understatement.
The things that lined up—quickly, easily, and efficiently—for this deal to go through with remarkable ease and speed, confirmed everything I’ve ever read, taught, and lived about deliberate creation and manifesting what you want in your life.
We weren’t looking for a new house.
We love our Pink House, our yard, our neighborhood, our neighbors.
This house found us, and the energy that propelled us to buy it was incredibly powerful.
There was simply no resistance—in any way, shape, or form.
Our real estate agent, a dear friend of mine from Brown, said on more than one occasion, “I’ve never seen anything like this. No deals go this way.”
She is now practicing yoga regularly at Prana. J
The details of how it all went down are private (even for this Super-mom) and detailed so I won’t bore you with them, but when I tell you that the night we were waiting for the sellers to get back to us on our offer…waiting, waiting…I noticed that the following quote was posted on my site/blog:
Super-Quote of the Day, Tuesday October 6, 2009: TAYLOR WELLS, M.A., M.ED., R.Y.T.
“Waiting for the fish to bite or waiting for wind to fly a kite. Or waiting around for Friday night or waiting perhaps for their Uncle Jake or a pot to boil or a better break or a string of pearls or a pair of pants or a wig with curls or another chance. Everyone is just waiting.”
-Dr. Seuss
(The Seller’s name is JAKE).
I sat stunned as I read the quote that chilly autumn evening, and called Philippe to the computer. He read it and was speechless for a moment, and then said “That’s GOD. That’s proof of God.”
Now, Sister, we almost never use the word God in our studios or when we teach elsewhere or even at the Pink House. because it’s so triggering for so many people for so many reasons. So when he said this, it was powerful.
I posted the Dr. Seuss quote (and the accompanying article) about six months ago.
Coincidence?
I don’t believe in coincidences. J
The day that we saw the inside of the White Castle, I was listening to Abraham-Hicks on my IPOD, and happened to hear a man asking about what to do when “you want something finite—like a house or a car or to win a lottery—and you really think you’re going to get it, and you don’t?”
Abraham said that there was one big flaw in his thinking…he was talking about something finite and the Universe is INFINITE.
She said it’s best to find the essence of what you want and go for that, not for one specific thing.
At this point I was thinking, “Forget that! I want the White Castle! It’s our house!”
She then said that there is one exception…when you absolutely positively have a KNOWING that something is yours. There is no doubt. There is no fear. It just is.
“That’s more like it Sister!” I smiled, as I brushed my teeth and kept listening.
Then she said something that again, made me pause and actually sit down because of its power.
Abraham asked the man if he’d ever experienced a situation where he wasn’t asking/looking for something and it came—and FAST—and then he realized that a long, long time ago, he’d asked for it in some way, shape, or form.
“OMG!” I exclaimed to myself, as I recalled being 18 and visiting my parents while on break from Brown. They were penniless and living in a construction site. My dad’s friend had “given them a break” and given him the job of “managing” the construction of a condo complex, and living in the one condo that was finished. They had no furniture. I slept on the floor while construction noises woke me at the crack of dawn—not the usual schedule of a freshman in college (LOL).
I didn’t fret, I didn’t complain, I didn’t feel sorry for myself or my parents, instead I visualized where I’d live one day—someplace very, very different than my current circumstances. And I found things to be happy about—to be grateful for.
I’d go for walks in an affluent part of Dallas called Highland Park, and look at the beautiful homes with joy—what beautiful structures and architecture!–and send light to those who were so blessed to live there. I felt so happy for them and what they had created, and experienced joy from just looking at the beauty they’d manifested.
There was one particular home that was my favorite. I’d stop in front of it and stare at it for many minutes. It looked like a white castle. “One day,” I proclaimed, “I will live in a white castle.”
Fast forward 26 years, and we are moving into a white castle.
I had totally forgotten about this castle in Highland Park, Dallas, Texas, until I heard the Abraham piece. I had forgotten about the rocket of desire I had launched over two and a half decades before.
But the Universe had not.
The Universe had been lining things up for me—oh so carefully—so that when the White Castle came into my life, there really wasn’t anything I could do to screw up the deal. All I had to do was follow my heart, and believe. Which, at this point–after so many yoga practices–is easy for me.
Whatever you want, whatever you’re wishing for—the Universe hears you.
It IS COMING. At the perfect time and in the perfect way.
All you need to do is ask, and allow.
And be patient.








January 4th, 2010 at 6:07 am
wow.
this is the best article yet!
and i keep thinking about what john said about your house.
‘it is like they have lived here for years!’ he said.
when we were there, you had just moved in 3 weeks prior.
no boxes, no ‘catch-all’ room, no haphazard areas.
it truly was/is meant to be. you feel it when you are in that house.
and i also keep thinking that i am fascinated by the fact that you still listen to your abraham-hicks cd’s!
because you just ‘get it.’ you get what they say, you embody it, really.
and you still listen.
now i know why.
so off i go to listen!!
cuz girl, although i ‘get it’ i am obviously not really ‘getting it.’
and as a p.s. ‘adorable and delicious’ DOES sum up diane’s accent perfectly!!
January 4th, 2010 at 10:37 am
Hi Super-A,
It’s so funny that John said that about our house, because people often say to us:
“Are you settling in?” or
“Are you starting to feel comfortable yet?” or
“Still surrounded by boxes?”
and we smile and say “We are totally settled in and we love it! We feel as though we’ve lived here forever.”
We LOVED our pink house, yet we had and have no sadness in leaving it.
Even our three kids–ages 12, 5, and 2.
Nothing.
Our realtor, Judy, is so sweet and is an Auntie to our kids and kept checking in about the kids: “How are they doing?” “Are they beginning to adjust?” etc.
No adjustment!
They just loved it day one–their friends too.
Didn’t skip a beat.
So it really was our house–waiting for us–having been in the making/MANIFESTING for many, many years.
Philippe and I say frequently that we are so grateful to Jake and Ruth (the previous owners) for doing all that construction/work on it for us.
I DO listen to my abraham-hicks CD’s regularly, and I love them.
They feel like HOME–like the white castle!
My kids love them too.
Phoenix (age 2) says “I wanna listen to that lady!”
I also read my quotation/affirmation cards daily while I practice, first thing in the morning, which really sets the energy and tone for my day.
It works for me.
And, yes, that accent! Isn’t it the best?!
Have the best day ever!
Namaste!
Taylor
January 4th, 2010 at 10:39 am
Hi there everyone!!!!
I could not agree more! I think that some folks are wired for this way of thinking no matter where they come from or what they have been through!
Congrats on your home!!!!!
And Adrienne….it sure does sound like you are getting it to me:) because your post shows how truly happy you are for Taylor!!!!
January 4th, 2010 at 3:26 pm
Taylor-
This is such a great story. I loved reading it and I LOVE your home!
This reminds me of an experience of my own. My husband (boyfriend at the time) and I had only been dating for 5 months and we had only lived together for 1 month. That was already raising an eyebrow or two amongst our inner circles. He was looking for a condo to buy on his own, that I would move into with him. We had been half-seriously scanning the homes for sale on Boston.com “for fun” and he came across this old farmhouse in Bedford that sounded incredible. There was a twinkle in his eye when he showed it to me and said we HAVE to look at it, despite the fact that it was way above his price range. So we scheduled some time to see it.
When we walked into the backyard, the realtor said it would be the perfect space for an outdoor wedding. We looked at each other and laughed. She was right. This was all lining up way too perfectly, and it was so easy to imagine. We hadn’t even walked into the actual house when we both confessed we loved it and wanted it. Of course seeing the house confirmed that and we had the distinct feeling, like you did, that this was meant to be our home. We could see our future kids running around, playing hide and seek, as this was a 200 year old home with lots of nooks and crannies.
I later told my husband that when I was in high school, I used to drive 25 minutes to lexington center (which borders Bedford) and go biking on the minuteman bike path and daydream of one day settling down in that area, going for bike rides with my future family on that same path. Strange, because I moved out west after high school and never thought I’d come back east after that. But I did, and that decision was made in a moment and this one was too.
I worried that we would never get approved for the mortgage, and if we did, we’d never be able to keep up with the payments. When I said things like that, he just confidently told me, like he always does, “we’ll work it out.” And we have. It made our families nervous, and in fact, his family only found out the whole truth that we bought the house together (as in, our finances were now joined) when my best friend told the story of our house in her toast 3 years later at our wedding…in our backyard! So it came to be that the whole image I envisioned in high school came together, piece by piece, and it continues to unfold…
People thought we were nuts to buy this house together after only dating for 5 months, but we knew it was right. At that time I knew nothing about deliberate creation but each subsequent event felt so meant to be, I knew something bigger was going on. Getting approved for that mortgage was a miracle in itself. Now, we find ourselves sitting warmly by the wood stove in the living room of our beautiful old farmhouse, smiling in disbelief and so grateful for it all.
I continue to work on being open to it all, and when I am, I reap the benefits. Witnessing these types of non-coincidences over and over just makes it that much more exciting to see how happy and fulfilling our lives can be if we just allow it. Our own thoughts are so very powerful. And that is great news!!
Thanks for inspiring all of us, Taylor, and congratulations on your beautiful home!
January 4th, 2010 at 5:35 pm
Taylor,
Thanks for this great inspirational piece of work!! I truly believe that we attract things in our lives based on our thinking. You have just reaffirmed that in my mind!
My husband and I met you the other day at Prana Cafe with our son and our out-of-town guests. I was immediately blown away by your warmth and perspective. When we left I said to my husband, “If that’s what Raw food and Yoga does to a person, sign me up!” I walked away from meeting you feeling as though it was a destined moment, as silly as that might sound.
Thanks for your inspiration! Congratulations on your beautiful family and home and I hope that you enjoy the rest of your pregnancy!
January 4th, 2010 at 6:00 pm
Thanks for the WONDERFUL reminder about the amazing gift we all have to manifest and make out dreams come true. Thank you and congrats, so great to know you are all so settled:)
January 4th, 2010 at 8:13 pm
Okay, I am honestly thrilled for you and your babies, and the house looks phenomenal. But, I have to be honest. I am a single mom who has to work a full time job, including significant travel, to pay the bills for my daughter’s nanny and education. Her father has no inclination to see her or pay any bills. I love that you found your dream house and I fully believe that yoga provides many answers in life, but I can’t do yoga because no studios provide child care and I can’t afford any additional child care expenses beyond my nanny and what I need to pay when I travel for work.
I hate my corporate job, but can’t see any other choice but to keep it for the benefits and salary. I would absolutely love to think that yoga would provide the answers and that I would stumble on my dream husband or dream house, but neither seems in the cards right now. So what about the super moms that don’t have the means or the support system to practice meaningful yoga or to buy a dream house or to take the time to invest in a raw lifestyle (which I tried but was totally overwhelmed). What about us? Do I answer the 100+ emails I have every night to keep my job security and be able to provide for my daughter, while she watches sponge bob. Or, do I read to her like I know I should.
Don’t get me wrong, I read your blog every weeek and it gives me inspiration, but frustrates me a the same time. I would love to be naive enough to think I could do enough yoga to create my own opportunities, but don’t you think reality for most people dictates otherwise? I honor your own personal commitment but challenge your honesty in this question.
January 5th, 2010 at 5:34 am
Hi Taylor. What a great article. I am a true believer that positive things happen to positive people. My question is – how do you STAY positive when everything goes wrong?
I have had some health problems over the past couple of years along with my husband getting laid off from two different jobs. We were in a major car accident as well and all of this has left us with SO MUCH debt. It is eating away at us like a cancer.
I try and stay positive and so does he, and I swear – BOOM – something else bad happens. I really want to break the cycle and can’t seem to figure out how!
January 5th, 2010 at 7:19 am
i believe it is continual focus and unwavering faith in our dreams esp. in the time of adversity that can open the doors of abundance for all.
it is quite a challenge when you are continually hit with difficult situations to stay positive, let alone believe in abundance.
i would suggest to some of you (and i will be doing the same, trust me!!) to read and listen to abraham-hicks as well as find FIVE minutes every day to breath and focus on your dreams, your birthright to be happy and healthy.
also, create a document on your computer or get a journal and EVERY DAY write what you are appreciatve and grateful for. whether it is 3 things or 300 things, do it, every day. it creates momentum and flow in a positive direction.
remember: ‘energy flows where attention goes’
so yes, ignore your situation!
take action to change whatever it is you can.
know that the universe it lining things up, just like taylor says.
taylor STILL reads her affirmation cards and listens to abraham-hicks every day to keep her in the flow.
no, ‘this is not working’ from her.
not that she never has a doubt or a bad moment but those are very short-lived b/c she goes right back into her flow.
we can all do it, i truly believe! so stand strong sisters!
abraham-hicks says ‘nothing you want is upstream’
so put your oars in your canoe, turn that boat around and flow joyfully downstream to your destiny of abundance and love, it is not just for certain people, it is for everybody.
xoxox
January 5th, 2010 at 5:43 pm
I think that there are so many factors and ALL need to be considered.
Julia, I just plain think that you rock….what more can I say, really?! Everything that you are doing, you are doing on your own, just you and your girl! You are showing what love truly is…beyond the shadow of a doubt! It is SO easy to be positive when life is smooth sailing! I have SO much respect for single Moms because they do EVERYTHING!!!! You Julia, inspire me! It takes stones to get up every morning to go to a job that you aren’t loving to provide for your kiddo….the reality is that you need your job and you don’t have a husband to fall back on, you, girl, are BRAVE!!!!
When people say good things happen to good people I half heartedly believe that….I have seen MANY a horrid thing happen to the most wonderful of people, and even more great things happen for people who are just yucky! I think that truly being honest lies in opening your eyes and seeing what is around you, and working with what you have right here, right now. Happiness on your own terms may not come with a raw food lifestyle, a big house, or even a daily yoga practice. It has to come from being content with this moment in your own life because really, what else is there? The past and the future???? The past is the past and the future will take care of itself, we just have to arrive there as lightly as possible! Every person has their own recipe for happiness and yours may very well just be different! You were saying, the raw food thing stressed you out…so why go there? Or why go all the way there in one fell swoop? What for? Maybe do it slowly or heck maybe think about doing it someday when stuff dies down a bit???? I have been juicing for 20 years (long before it became mainstream and it REALLY does help), if you are willing to make one shift, that is a simple one to take on, and isn’t crazy expensive because believe me if it was I would be outta luck:)! The 100% raw thing was so not for me either…I tried it and while I respect the choices and lifestyles of others, it just did not flow! I do However eat more raw foods than not, but man get outta my way on Feb 9. (my Bday) if there is not a honking slice of cheesecake from the Cheescake Factory with my name on it!!!!
I have been on both sides of the fence regarding happiness/ materialism/ stuff etc ….I grew up with all of the stuff, the fancy house, the gym memberships, the clothes, cars, lessons, the Jack Lalanne juicer along with the virtuous diet (it was the 80′s after all), college tuition and weddings paid in full, you name it! We were SO unhappy and dysfunctional that I learned quickly that none of this stuff matters! That has been MY blessing for had I not learned young that stuff is just stuff, I would have never married the guy who I fell in love with! The one whom I was flat broke with, the same one whom I built the life that I love so much with…I would have ended up with boyfriend number 1 who was LOADED, and would have had everything, yet nothing! But that is just my background…we all have reasons and answers to why we are who we are and why something does or does not work for us.
For me yoga has been a blessing! It has not been a “cure all” because I truly believe that we all have everything that we need right there inside of us, but it has increased my focus, has lessened my anxiety and it has taught me to honor my emotions! It has also made me open my eyes and see that things are never always what they seem. We all have struggles and sometimes you do have to paddle upstream (for a while) in order to learn to flow downstream! We will all get there…just have faith!!!! And remember abundance doesn’t mean just things….to me it means love which again means that you already have it by having that little girl!!!!
January 6th, 2010 at 8:26 am
Hi Chrissy,
Your post really hit home, thanks just what I needed. You are right, we (I) need to focus more on what is front of me not what is beyond reach (for now anyway). Thanks for taking the time to share your wisdom and your positive energy
January 6th, 2010 at 12:06 pm
Anytime Julia!
You know, sometimes it is SO hard to see what is here and now! I know for me that it will always be something that I need to remind myself of…we all are doing the best that we can and I meant every single word about standing in awe of single parents..what you all do on a daily basis astounds me! And a LOT of people forget that single parents function at all times in a dual role! Some people can’t get ONE role straight and here you are rockin’ 2! WAHOO!
January 7th, 2010 at 10:50 am
Super-mom Julia,
Girl, lay it on me! Please, don’t hold back. ☺
LOL!
I infuse everything with humor because it lightens the energy, no matter how serious the situation. And Sister, trust me, I’ve been in many a “serious” situation.
If I had a nickel for every projection of “you have/have always had the perfect life so how can you understand what I’m going through–and BTW, big deal if you can manifest because your life is already perfect!?” sent my way, I could fund you leaving your corporate job, spending more time with your daughter, and finding what you truly want to do on this earth.
I didn’t, Julia—have the perfect life.
I created it.
I have long since stopped citing all of the adversity that I’ve endured—beginning at birth—because I believe that gives energy to the dark side–not the energy I want to cultivate.
Those who know me well know to what I am referring, but if you don’t know me well, it doesn’t matter, because the details of my past don’t matter.
It did happen, it was awful, I could get all of the sympathy and validation in the world if I wanted to “go there, but I choose not to after much learning about what works and what doesn’t, and how the Law of Attraction works.
What I’ve learned, Julia, is that what matters is NOW, and that all of my power is NOW.
I have a choice, in every single moment, on what thought to focus.
And what I am focusing on—wanted or unwanted—I am creating.
So the more I focus on what it is that I DON’T WANT, the more I create what I don’t want.
The more I focus on WHAT I DO WANT, the sooner it will manifest in my life.
When my family was homeless, I didn’t give it any energy. Instead, I focused on what I did want—a home that was warm, cozy, happy, and beautiful–with great energy–and looked like a white castle.
Now I would’ve had every “right” to have bemoaned my family’s situation. It wasn’t pretty!
But that would’ve just created more of the same.
Is this a “blaming mentality?”
No, it’s a simple law of the Universe –the Law of Attraction–and me choosing to follow it and reap its many, many joys and benefits.
We can all choose to utilize it for our own joyful manifestation adventures, or not.
This law states that I can choose to create what I want (or not).
That which is like unto itself is drawn.
The law is not biased. It does not judge.
It just takes my order—and delivers it.
The speed with which my order/miracle is delivered depends on three things: belief, faith, and resistance.
(Resistance might look something like: “What a load of C***. There’s no way that works, and even if it did, how am I supposed to think ‘happy’ thoughts when my life stinks?”)
If I have lots of belief and faith and little resistance, it’ll show up super quickly.
If resistance is my middle name, even good luck (which I don’t believe in) won’t help me, Sister.
What is my order based upon? My thoughts, words, and emotions.
What does this mean exactly? That you (and I) have a tremendous amount of power.
This is good news!
I’m not going to apologize for what I’ve created. I’m proud of it and intend on creating even more of the best things ever, for that is the nature of my (and your) Spirit—always striving to create more beauty, joy, and peace.
And when I create what I want, it is for the highest good of all. That’s the best part! No one loses when I win. Just like no one wins when I “lose.”
Everything that is created from a place of clear intention and focus will manifest. It’s only a matter of time.
“How much time?” you ask.
Again (this bears repeating), it all depends on belief, faith, and the art of allowing. The more belief, faith, and “ability to allow” (the opposite of resistance) I have, the quicker I will manifest my dreams.
If there is no resistance, manifestation is immediate.
And I can’t fake faith. I can’t say one thing and really feel another. The Universe picks up on vibration, big time. And mine must match my intention and my desire.
So, what if my vibration stinks right now for various reasons (all very valid of course)?
How do I clean up my vibration? Move it higher? Focus my thoughts on what I DO want instead of what I DON’T WANT?
There are many ways, Super-people.
What has worked for me, personally, and thousands of Super-people I have taught, is practicing yoga and putting high quality, organic, high vibration foods into my body on a regular basis.
Am I saying that I am “the best ever” because I have transcended adversity that is so awful that I choose not to type the words describing it on my blog?
Not at all.
What I’m saying is:
IF I CAN DO IT, WITH ALL I HAD TO DEAL WITH AND SURPASS, SO CAN YOU.
YOU CAN DO THIS.
Is yoga and high vibration, healthy, organic food the only way to clean up your vibration and focus your mind so you can manifest whatever you want?
Of course not!
But it does work. I’m living proof.
So try it sometime, or find a way that works for you to clean up those thoughts and focus, focus, focus on what you want to create.
Practice, practice, practice.
And then smile, because your next miracle is on its way!
Namaste!
January 7th, 2010 at 10:54 am
Thank you Adrienne, Chrissy, Gigi, Lauren, Jamie, and Sher for your comments and wisdom,
Deliberate Creation is a powerful tool that is available to everyone at any given moment, and so it gives me great joy to educate people about it who don’t otherwise know of it’s incredible potential.
Jamie, I loved your story! It gave me the chills. ☺
Gigi, great question!
I answered it above in my response to Julia, so check it out Sister.
Sher, it was great to meet you, your husband, your friends, and your adorable 18-month-old son at THE PRANA CAFÉ. Congratulations on your baby on the way! Go Super-mom! Much gratitude for all of your kind words. Hope to see you guys TONITE– THURSDAY JANUARY 7th–at THE PRANA CAFÉ for our first FAMILY NIGHT! It’s from 5-7pm and we’ll have arts and crafts, face painting, a fun movie, and a delicious kids meal. We’ll be featuring FAMILY NIGHT at THE PRANA CAFÉ the FIRST THURSDAY OF EVERY MONTH. See you there!
Have the best day ever!
Namaste!
Taylor
January 7th, 2010 at 3:07 pm
I loved you last post! It is SO true…the whole adversity thing. I have had SO many people ask me (just last week even) “How and why can you be happy after everything that happened in your life”? To say that I was floored for both having to explain being happy and for having it all put out there was an understatement! Why people want to “hear” what you have been through as a person as if it validates happiness makes me wonder! We all have our “story”, our up bringings, family of origin, or whatever term that can be used to sum up experiences during childhood…for me they taught me perspective! I learned what I could take that would be useful, and what I in no way wished to repeat! I am not even close to perfect but I truly believe that some people are blessed enough to be born with a positive disposition, and others have to work a little bit harder. The GREAT NEWS???? Positivity is for everyone. It does take practice even for the shiny happy by birth people. I think that it is wonderful that you chose to look around at beautiful houses when your family was homeless! What good would whining about and/or feeling sorry for yourself at that moment in time have done for the situation anyhow???? It would have bummed you out! While no life is “perfect” even when stuff flows there is a choice. My choice has been to work through my stuff, to have a sense of humor, to not live in my head too much because that is a sure fire way to miss A LOT…..to be selfless when needed and to take time just for me when needed/wanted.
I truly believe that you DID in fact create your life (as we all did) and that everyone deserves every bit of happiness that they have. There will always be people who say that your way is ‘a load of crap’, but hey….what can you do (although I personally like when I’m asked if I am “nuts” or have had “sunshine blown up my butt” because I don’t walk around angry about my childhood LOL)? For anyone who says “yeah right you have XYZ..you will never get me” they may be right…you WILL not get that way of thinking which may be OK after all.
Sometimes people get frustrated when they are having hard times, and that, I do get, which could in many cases make otherwise very kind and positive people ask “why not me”? for a sec until they get a hold, and get back on track. We have all done that at one time or another and for many it has been useful to have their “moment” and move on! I pray that folks in those circumstances will find the support that they need because being happy is what we all deserve…I do have faith that they will get there in their own time, on their own path by whatever means make sense in their worlds, because like parenting, there are SO MANY ways to do it right, the only ones mattering are those that work for you and for your own family!
BTW I wish that I could have swung by the Cafe tonight! Sounds like fun….we will have to visit next month!
January 7th, 2010 at 3:19 pm
Dear Julia,
my heart truly got what you wrote. But let me offer you some pragmatic examples of how to make yoga part of your life. Familiarize yourself with basic sun salutation asanas and use them every morning to begin your day with a sense of focus and movement. Do it while your daughter is sleeping. You don’t need music, and you will blossom in strength and self awareness. I mean they have been doing this for thousands of years right? Yoga is your yoga whenever you need it. So what if you can’t afford a studio class. Bring it back home and make it your yoga. When you travel do it too! Breath meditation is always there for you. Om Shanti!
January 7th, 2010 at 4:32 pm
Hi Taylor,
First, I want to say how much I enjoy your site and your incredibly positive attitude and spirit. Your ‘castle’ is absolutely beautiful, congratulations!
Second, is my question: I am wondering why you find fault with the “North American attitude” of “more is better” and “I am not enough” yet you strive for great material things such as a very large (and I would guess, very expensive) home. Isn’t this antithetical to your philosophy? The reason I ask is because I am very much interested in studying to become a yoga teacher and in venturing further down the yogic path. While exploring various programs, I happened upon your site and loved most of what you were saying, but had some questions.
Striving for material possessions and needing a big, well, mansion-like home doesn’t really seem to fit with what you’re saying. Is the path to enlightenment paved with mansions, Range Rovers and diamond earrings? Are we meant to be on a yogic path that views the universe as one big cosmic cash machine? If we believe that a Range Rover, diamond earrings, etc. will come to us, it will – and will bring us happiness? I think we should be asking ourselves, ‘WHY are we asking for these things?’. What spiritual void do I have in my life that makes me strive for “more and bigger” and to “supersize” ones home, car, etc.? You mention your disdain for “supersized” food portions in another post, but what about “supersized” material possessions? Isn’t that the same principle?
What about altruism and selflessness, making yoga accessible for all and help those that are truly in need of yogic guidance, AND are not able to pay for “consulting”? Are you meaning to say that the universe favors you or anyone else because they strive harder?
It’s wonderful for you that you have become professionally accomplished – we need more successful business women and champions of better nutrition out there – but I’m truly curious about the consistency and etiology of your philosophy on materialism.
January 7th, 2010 at 7:48 pm
Hi Carrie,
I was recently at Taylor’s house and just want to say a few things about your post. I am not a yogi or anything so cannot speak to a lot of the things you are saying but would like to say a few things anyway so thank you in advance.
Taylor and her family are not flashy, ‘stuff’ seeking people. They are actually fairly modest. There are not tons of clothes (for any of them including the kids) or tons of toys or tons of useless ‘stuff.’
And while the house is certainly large ~ they actually can and do use ALL of that space. Soon to be five children in there, and two adults, they run their business from the house as well as have most of the staff meetings there, home school there etc etc. Also this beautiful home they just bought is walking distance from their yoga studio and restaurant where they spend a lot of time. I think there is actually a lot of simplicity in living in this big house for them.
I believe they are truly grateful for everything they have and want every one of us to be able to have whatever it is we want ~ whether it is to live in a van, a community of people in one home, on a beach, condo or a castle.
As I said, I cannot speak to the rest and the whole ‘yoga’ of thinking or living but did want to say a few things.
And finally
and I wish I could find the words to say this as eloquently as Taylor might BUT there has to be a place for abundance in all our lives. And abundance means something different to everyone. Would it be better if Taylor and her family lived in a tiny house (but then they would still have to rent an office) or if they were self-conscious of their success and what they have created?
I don’t think so. But do not necessarily have the words to explain…
Thanks!
Best to you and hi to all.
January 7th, 2010 at 8:39 pm
Taylor… you are a truly amazing person. You pulled through all odds to find the amazing strength and light inside you and to guide other to find theirs. You walk through your life with amazing positive focus and determination regardless of circumstances and give in an enormously generous way to help others find their way to peace and enlightenment. The positive impact you, your teachings, your examples, and your energy has had on this world is far reaching and profound… and you give that selflessly as your life’s mission. I am repeatedly amazed at how you send genuine light and love to others whether they have been friendly to you or quite the opposite. I have never met another human being with as sincere a love for others as you. When most people would respond to people or situations with anger or harshly judge someone for their circumstances, their behavior, etc. you have consistently and genuinely wished for and done all you can to help them find truth, peace, enlightment and that makes you a truly amazing person.
I am extremely happy for the abundance you have created in your life and celebrate that with you.
For anyone to interpret your beliefs on manifestation as a judgement of those that have less couldn’t be farther from the truth.
Keep loving… keep teaching… keep sending love and light and holding hope for all human beings… and celebrate- whole heartedly in the abundance you have created in your life.
I love you always.
January 8th, 2010 at 7:13 am
Hi Everyone!
I really don’t think that Carrie was judging…she did indeed raise some great questions. I applaud her courage and strength in asking, because I really do think that she is trying to understand, the whole philosophy behind some of the parellels that she is (and many others who may not personally know Taylor) seeing. I think that they are very fair inquiries, in which she is hoping to seek knowledge, so she really didn’t come across as judgmental to me (and this is just my take).
January 8th, 2010 at 8:03 am
We are all women… all moms… all sisters… all at different places in our personal growth and life circumstances. Taylor is all about accepting all people… exactly where they are at… loving them and sending light… without judgement. Knowing Taylor the way that I do… I know that she would want nothing more than the absolute best life for all people… peace, happiness, love, and anything else that brings comfort to a persons life. She has made a lifetime of giving to others at all different stages of their lives and all different life circumstances… from a place of love, acceptance, and hope. It feels ironic and horribly unfair that after climbing through hell and creating a life of peace and abundance- while accepting all people at all stages all along the way- she is now being questioned about her authenticity because she is reaping the rewards of living well and practicing diligently. Does a person have to be in the midst of hell or presently suffering to be acceptable? No… just as one doesn’t have to be at the top of their game to be acceptable. We are all acceptable.. more than acceptable… we are all amazing… at all stages of our lives and paths. Taylor lives and breaths this motto.
January 8th, 2010 at 8:45 am
What I am trying to say is… hooray to all of us… to Taylor.. to Julia… to Carrie… to all of you… to me
… to all women everywhere doing the best they can in this world. We need to be joined together. We can break free of the chains of competition and judgement- and support each other when we are facing challenges- in love and acceptance- and celebrate with each other when we are at peace/ happy. We can be detached from materialism …. without requiring ourselves to live in poverty and without comforts. To me, materialism is striving to obtain more things for the purpose of having more things.. or worse… to define ourselves by the things we have and judge those with less as being less. That is repulsive. It is also the polar opposite of the very core of Taylor and the very essence of the way she lives her life.
January 8th, 2010 at 10:29 am
I agree with you Chrissy that Carrie DID bring up a really good question. But I felt it did come with a bit of a sting so I wanted to be sure and tell what I saw from the perspective over here.
And I really like what Megan has said and what we all have said!
That is why this blog/forum is here so we can all speak and find each other and learn, so thanks to all of you and thanks to Taylor!
January 8th, 2010 at 11:31 am
I could not agee more Adrienne!
I truly think that happiness means many things to many different people…sometimes it is hard to understand where others are coming from, for me it is one of the mysteries of life, which is just so cool! I love learning new things from people! All of these posts have made me think…. have made me wonder, in other words have made me better in terms of understanding and accepting others….I have so much compassion for what others have gone through in childhood and think that it is OK to have lots of wonderful things (both material and otherwise) if it is balanced with a kind heart, a willingness to give back and a true understanding that while you can manifest SO much, luck also plays a great role (but again, my thing is if you feel lucky, you sure will be!)!
I think that because we know Taylor and know how truly sweet she is some of these questions could sting a bit…although I truly think that this was not the intention….so I do have to ask Adrienne…are you Italian because I sure am and we seem to have that get outta my way Mama Bear thing going on! Which is SO great because if anything the people that we love will always KNOW for a fact that we have their backs! LOL!!!
We women need one another as supportive allies….which is why I love responding to posts….there is no one correct answer to all of this stuff, we can only offer our take on stuff and then meet in the middle!
January 8th, 2010 at 11:44 am
Chrissy, girl, I am not only Italian but Sicilian AND a Scorpio!
Watch out!
I always love your post and think everyone’s points are important, need to be heard and pondered.
I guess in Carrie’s post her questions seem AT Taylor, asking them to her specifically lots of ‘don’t YOU think this, believe this, do this,’ etc. Maybe she just meant a more of a collective yogic ‘you.’
Regardless, it’s all good…
Have a great weekend everyone!
January 8th, 2010 at 12:34 pm
LOVE this story Taylor!!! Thank you so much for sharing it. Beautifully written, so inspirational. i am psyched to meet my rockets of desire very soon on my path : )
January 8th, 2010 at 12:37 pm
ps. taylor, Theo calls abraham “the lady” too….and he also says “i wanna listen to the lady” ha! xoox
January 8th, 2010 at 12:55 pm
just read all the comments — thank you all so much for sharing! what a great thread….
i wanted to say hi to Julia, as i am also a “single parent mum” to a 3 year old — no contact etc from dad. We just moved into a great apt that we manifested with a yoga room! we were homeless for a year — and i used to say “i am the happiest homeless person on the planet”. I always wanted a yoga room, and now i have one! (because my son and i sleep in the living room! it’s a one bedroom apt — ha! i love it!)
i know that we are on to better times — how do i do it?
one day at a time! totally one day at a time….if i have enough for the bills great if not ok. i work from my home, on the phone — i also cant hire sitters or go to yoga class, but honestly my own practice is the best
that sun salutation suggestion was a great one.
i stay in gratitude — all day long i know and affirm that i have the best life ever!!!
namaste
shanti
ps i am a raw foods teacher and telephone psychic! y’all can contact me if you need psychic info xoxo
January 8th, 2010 at 1:38 pm
have you ever seen bikram choudry’s home? he must be really good at manifesting too. bottom line- taylor has put in alot of hard work (as has bikram). alot of outreach, alot of selfless time–(ex. replying to emails during the wee hours of the morning so she didn’t have to take away from time with her many children) and has had great success within her spirit and within her life. I don’t think that it’s a reflection of not being a good yogi to have a big home. I am not saying that Carie’s observations are out of line–she asks valid questions. I think there are different yogi’s-but all good–all different styles of yoga–but all good. I don’t think taylor needs to live in a 3 bedroom apartment and give all of her money away to charity to be a believable yogi. She has given alot of her time away to charity. I have also been involved with the business side of taylor for multiple years and have seen the countless amounts of dvd’s and free passes she has given to charity, the passes she gives out in the community and the amount of free consultations she used to do before charging a dime and the amount of mats she donated to local schools and for the yoga hope foundation. the times that she has spent away from her children teaching for free for various causes. the list goes on. Don’t get too caught up in the house…it is housing a very powerful, charitable and loving spirit.
I wouldn’t hesitate one second to take the yoga teacher training through prana…powerful program from a very devoted student and teacher!
namaste
January 8th, 2010 at 1:52 pm
Jacqui!
Another GREAT reminder that things are not always how we choose to see them at that given moment in time based on where we may be!
“Don’t get too caught up in the house”!!!! GREAT advice!
And Adrienne….WOW!!!! How did I know???? I am Italian and Aquarian so I hear ya sistah!!!! You know, I didn’t even look too deeply at the language styling of the post, I might be naive to believe that questions are just questions (tis true…) I guess that is just how I am…always wanting to learn, wondering where others are coming from, interested etc…again, how very Aquarius of me!!!! I am loving this dialogue and LOVED your posts Shanti….another great single Mom….I think that we can all have just what we need and should feel comfort in knowing that the best is not only right now, but is also yet to come!
January 8th, 2010 at 2:49 pm
Carrie,
“The Manifestation” is sparking some excellent questions and dialogue and that’s great for many, many reasons. One reason is that it gives me the golden opportunity to clarify many questions that people have, but are afraid to ask. ☺
So rock on Super-people!
Now, sit down, and grab a glass of green juice, because I’ve got lots to say…. ☺
In fact, my words aren’t going to fit on one post, so they’ll be a part two.
If you have read what I’ve written in the past, I am pro abundance, on every level, and I do not “find fault with,” criticize, or judge.
Instead, I’m all about teaching how to create an abundance of love, joy, grace, integrity, freedom, inner peace, excitement, energy, wisdom–and material things, if that floats your boat.
Whatever floats your boat, my Sisters!
I do not criticize or “find fault with” abundance, or material things.
I in fact, do not criticize anything, as that would be judgment and judgment leads to suffering.
I support every super-person’s evolution. And with evolution comes an always-changing path.
The only things we know for certain is that things will change, and that the Law of Attraction is at work—always—whether you are utilizing it, or not (please see my response to Julia above for more on this).
So what you love today (what “floats your boat”) may (and most likely will) change.
I have actually always been a happy person. No matter what the circumstances (severe childhood abuse, poverty, homelessness, a bad first marriage), I found a way to choose happiness. My happiness came from within, and I chose it (even if things seemed to be “awful” from the outside).
As Marianne Williamson says in “A Return to Love,” “Meaning doesn’t lie in things. Meaning lies in us. When we attach value to things that aren’t love – the money, the car, the house, the prestige – we are loving things that can’t love us back. We are searching for meaning in the meaningless. Money, of itself, means nothing. Material things, of themselves, mean nothing. It’s not that they’re bad. It’s that they’re nothing.”
Williamson is not judging “things,” rather she is saying that they will not bring you happiness and love if you first do not cultivate happiness and love within you—from your core.
I don’t believe that you cannot enjoy material things—or, of course, that they are inherently “bad.”
I do believe that any goal—whether material or educational or social or cultural—will not bring you joy unless that joy comes first from within.
This is Abraham-Hicks’s whole point. She says that people say to her again and again “When I’m rich/thin/popular/a doctor/influential/powerful/etc., I ‘ll be happy,” but the Law of Attraction says the opposite…get happy and then you’ll attract these things—or whatever it is that you want.
My life is of Service. I am of Service to you, Carrie, and to the entire planet.
In my opinion, the most precious things in life are love, joy, energy, and attention/focus. They are priceless. Children don’t want your presents, they want your presence.
I give these precious/priceless gifts away every day, all day—24-7—to my children, my husband, my students, my readers, my clients, my friends, and my family. Effortlessly and joyfully. Because this is my dharma.
I believe that this is the true essence of abundance—and giving.
Are my kids happy and grounded and loved because they live in a white castle?
No.
They are happy and grounded and loved because I emanate these things, and they follow suit/me.
Is it fun for them to live in a white castle?
You bet!
But it is not the source/root of their happiness.
It’s like the sprinkles on the cupcake—not the cupcake itself.
Philippe and I often remark after staying in a hotel room (all five—soon to be 7– of us) in NYC while we teach at PRANA NYC once a month, “it’s so fun to all live in one room, it connects us all so much…why do we really need a house?”
My best friend from Kindergarten (in Lake Bluff, Illinois, population 5000) reads this blog.
We reconnected through Super-mom.com in fact, after over 30 years.
When catching up, I told her the quick and dirty version of what really went down in my childhood. I left out details but just let her know that all wasn’t as it seemed (my family took making our lives look perfect to a professional level…funny and ironic that now people often project that “perfect life” thing on to me. Apparently, my parents taught us well).
She was surprised, saddened, disillusioned, and angry with my parents. She said (so sweetly) “I had no idea. I wish I had known. You should’ve stayed with us.”
This brought tears to my eyes because it’s the truth–I should’ve stayed with her and her family, but as she said, “you were always so happy—that’s what we all remember about you. Happy and ambitious—on that skating rink at five am practicing—while in Kindergarten.”
So how could they have known what was really going down? I didn’t emanate pain. I emanated joy. I was told in no uncertain terms: “DON’T TELL,” and girl, I listened.
My point here is that I was most certainly not in a “good” situation by any shakes of the imagination; however, even at age 5, I was practicing Deliberate Creation (the Law of Attraction), even though I didn’t know the technical term for it.
I was wired that way from birth, I suppose, but mostly I think that I learned through practice that I felt bad when I focused on what hurt and I felt good when I focused on what felt good.
And it really is that simple.
Back to the materialism piece, I’ve written this so many times (on this blog and elsewhere), that I apologize to my regular readers who are growing bored of hearing it (LOL)…I am pro abundance—in whatever form it takes as I am pro-spirit, love, joy, inner-peace, and freedom.
Our spirits love abundance (in many forms) and the essence of our spirits is freedom, joy, inner peace and love. You cannot truly have joy without love and inner peace; and with freedom comes these priceless commodities.
I have always been a deeply spiritual person. If you talk to people who knew me back in the day (before yoga and before I even knew what the word Namaste meant), I was always all about the Spirit.
I have never been into material things, per se. That said, I did begin manifesting a white castle (unbeknownst to me) about 26 years ago when my parents were homeless in Dallas* (*see article THE MANIFESTATION at http://super-mom.com/). Was I really wishing for a white castle, per se?
No. I was wishing for love, warmth, joy, inner peace, freedom, coziness, connection, a feeling of security, abundance, and good energy.
Did it happen to manifest in the form of a white castle about 26 years later?
Yes.
I’m not into clothes or cars or jewelry or shopping of any form (I actually don’t have a Range Rover or diamond earrings or a diamond ring for that matter—LOL. Please see article THE RING at http://super-mom.com/category/super-articles/page/6). I find shopping boring, overwhelming, exhausting, and stifling.
Do I judge these things? Think they are wrong?
Absolutely not!
Two of the hundreds of note cards with quotes on them that I read every single day say, “I do not judge the evolution of others. What and where they are right now is for their highest good,” and “I praise the success of others.”
Judgment and envy are the dark side (Please see the article THE SHAME CORE at http://super-mom.com/?s=The+Shame+Core). They zap creative divine energy. And in my opinion, it’s incredibly important/essential to keep your prana/divine energy flowing at all times—from your root chakra to your crown chakra. This is what makes things flow well, makes you feel the best ever, sparks your creative ability, and helps you have the best day ever every day.
There’s nothing spiritual about struggle, denial, and a shortage mentality. In fact, it’s the total opposite of what the old teachings say (Abraham-hicks talks a lot about this).
Sometimes people confuse “greed” with “abundance.” They are very, very different energetically. In greed there is fear, shortage, or scarcity–so someone has to lose for you to win. And even when you “win,” there is never enough. It’s (and you are) never enough. In abundance there’s plenty for all, so everyone can be happy and leave everyone else alone to do what they want with what they create.
(Continued on next post…please see below)–
January 8th, 2010 at 2:50 pm
Continuation of post above to Julia:
Abraham has a nice analogy that has to do with pies. She talks about you making a pie and having this kitchen with everything you could ever want to make any pie you want (aka The Universe). She says to go ahead and make your pie and not worry about what other people are putting into their pie. Who cares? Just put in your pie what you want in your pie.
But, she says, people often say “Why is she putting THAT into her pie?! I don’t want that in my pie!” (Read: judgment, criticism).
(Fine, don’t put it in—just focus on your pie.)
“But I don’t even want that in the kitchen! I don’t WANT her to put that in her pie!”
(Let it go and just make your pie. By focusing on what you DON’T want her to put in HER pie, you are going to end up having it in YOUR pie).
Remember, “whatever I give my attention to—wanted or unwanted—I am creating.”
I love that other people love fancy clothes, sky diving, cars, scuba diving, jets, jewelry, motorcycles, skiing, gadgets, hang gliding, and shopping for sport (naming just a few things that aren’t my thang)—because it brings them joy. There’s so much on this planet to bring you joy, and that rocks! So much abundance.
Joy is where it’s at, and it gives me joy to see others in this high vibration.
How beautiful that we can all love such different things! No one person is the same. Amazing!
It would be silly for me to judge, criticize, or “find fault with” things because they aren’t what I like (think of the pie analogy). Who cares what I like? I do, and that’s about it, if you get down to it.
All that matters is that you like it. If it makes you happy, do it/have it/be it!
What I do point out again and again is that many people believe erroneously that the acquisition of something will MAKE them happy.
This is not the case, as I explained above. It’s the other way around: when you are happy, you magnetize the things that you think about/talk about/desire.
This is the Law of Attraction. And The Universe (and I) does not judge what you ask for. It’s very cut and dried—she asked for a size 8 shoe—delivered!
So girl, make sure you really want a size 8 shoe. You’ve heard the old saying, “Be careful what you ask for.”
Now, interestingly, I’ve noticed with my own practice and by teaching a whole lot of people, that a yoga practice will naturally cause you to back off on certain things—to want/need less, to pare down, to minimalize.
When I say “want/need less,” I mean letting go of the delusion that “when I get this thing or am this thing, I will be happy.”
Practicing yoga lifts the veils of illusion, so you see truth. Your truth.
Not my truth. My truth is my truth. Yours is yours.
Listen to yours and follow your heart, and you’re lined up, Sister.
It’s really that simple.
I experienced this when I first began practicing and lost the desire to buy anything (and I’m not talking jewelry and clothes—I’ve never been a shopper—I’m talking toilet paper).
Almost immediately, I wanted to give everything away…own only one pair of jeans, one pair of shoes, a few dishes and glasses, etc.
I remember a friend coming over to my house and seeing the bags and bags of things I was giving away and saying, “Every day I come over, there’s less and less stuff. You just keep giving it all away. One day there’ll be nothing left, and I’ll find you living in the backyard in a teepee.”
And I gotta say, I thought about it for a sec.
It took years of giving “things” away just about daily (I used to be a saver/hoarder—type A plus and filled with fear) but I did achieve this freedom and one of my goals of not a lot of “things”—or what I feel as freedom (again, back to: Spirit, love, joy, inner peace, freedom).
I now own one pair of jeans, one pair of winter shoes, one pair of summer shoes, one pair of winter boots, one hat, one pair of gloves, one pair of underwear (kidding!) etc.,* and it feels good.
(*The exception here is yoga clothes. But there’s an abundance and gratitude story behind this. I was an ambassador for Lululemon and they gave me many yoga clothes and helped me to spread the light of PRANA and YOGA to many, many people, and for this I am grateful. I’ve actually given away a lot of the clothes at this point; however, I do have more than one pair of yoga pants.
So my definition of what brought me joy, love, inner peace, and freedom (as defined by my spirit), changed with my yoga practice. As did I and my actions.
Did I give stuff away because I had read in some book that that that’s what I should do, because it meant I was going to be “yogic” or “spiritual” or “good?”
Nope.
It just felt right and good, so I did it. Without thought.
I now (after practicing yoga for a long time) actually feel much calmer and more centered when there are less “things” around. Hence, what Adrienne described when she described our home.
Is this one big, huge, gigantic rationalization?
Absolutely not.
My intention is to give you clarity, Carrie, since you do not know me except via cyber space.
None of these (many) words would really be necessary, actually, if you came to our home or knew me real-time. ☺
We are so not “stuff people” or into “materialism” or “consumerism,” and you would get this immediately upon stepping foot into our home. You would feel the energy–which is one of love, joy, inner peace, and freedom.
We are very cognizant of teaching our children by the way we live and walk our path—and that means being conscious of our planet and of that which we “bring in” or consume.
A nice analogy is being conscious of what you “bring in” or “consume” when you eat. We teach every day to be cognizant of and bring in as many high vibration, organic foods as possible.
But hey, if your Spirit wants that cheeseburger, girl, go for it! Similarly, if you want some possession and it brings you joy, rock on!
Being mindful, of course, that the possession will actually not “make” you happy overall. It’s the opposite (as I’ve explained before above and elsewhere), and this is where most people get confused-and it’s no wonder, with the commercial culture out there telling you that you need this, this, and that to be happy and “whole.”
But the truth is Super-people, that your happy vibration will actually magnetize what you desire to you!
To be completely clear, I define materialism as striving for and buying “things” for the sake of buying them, and then moving on to buy more, more, more, with no joy or feelings of completion, closure, fulfillment, abundance, inner peace, or freedom, but instead with feelings of scarcity and fear and needing EVEN MORE. It’s energetic, really. As is EVERYTHING.
What I mean by this is that you can have a certain intention and do something and get a very different result, than if you do the exact same action with a different intention.
The Universe runs on energy and vibration, as I’ve said repeatedly in every single thing I’ve written (it bears repeating, Sister! And we ALL need to hear this again and again because we are, after all, human).
I love our new home. Not a moment goes by that I don’t feel blessed and joyful to be in it. It was truly a manifestation of the Universe (Please see the article THE MANIFESTATION at http://super-mom.com/)—a miracle and an example of what is possible when you believe.
Was I looking for a new home?
Nope. Loved our old one.
Did I have to have this home to be happy?
Nope. Was happy in our other home, and in my residence before that and before that and before that…dating way back to when my two roommates and I lived in a three-bedroom apartment in Everett and I paid $335/month! Back in the day. ☺
Did I/The Universe line this home up for me so that the purchase of it flowed beautifully and easily (in 8 days and against all odds)?
Yes.
Up until the purchase of The White Castle, Philippe and I have put every dollar (minus family expenses) that comes into Prana Power Yoga, The Prana Café’, and my Consulting Practice into…more Prana Power Yoga’s.
We self-finance all Prana expansion, which is wonderful, but at times quite a roll of the dice and leap of faith (what many would call stressful—some months are tight and down to the wire).
We choose not to take on investors because then we can create Prana exactly as we envisioned it years ago and continue to envision it. We are able to maintain the integrity so important to us in our Yoga Centers and Café. And we are able to be incredibly efficient at running Prana. We don’t have to have a meeting with x number of people to make a decision. We make 30 plus decisions a day, without hesitation, because we follow our hearts and stay in integrity (and don’t have to get “corporate” or “investor” approval for every move we make).
We take these chances and live on the edge more frequently than you can imagine (and than most people would be comfortable with) because it is our dharma to spread the light of Prana.
We are following our hearts (back to Spirit, love, joy, inner peace, and freedom). We do this because we believe. We do this because we care deeply about you, and the planet. The more people who practice Prana Power Yoga and eat clean food and practice Deliberate Creation=a happier and more peaceful planet.
It’s really that simple.
I remember a dear friend of mine, years ago, after I dragged her to yoga saying “I’m so much nicer now, after I practice! I even let someone go ahead of me in line at Wholefoods, and then I said “Namaste!”
To buy the white castle felt good after almost 8 years of putting everything back into Prana. Our home is not just our home—it is our Prana Power Yoga Headquarters, our Prana Café’ headquarters, our PranaSupermom Consulting headquarters, Super-mom.com headquarters, and our children’s school.
What I mean is that we not only live in our home, we run our four Prana Yoga Centers, our Café’, my Consulting Practice, and Super-mom.com out of it (choosing not to have a fancy office downtown or in Brookline or wherever) and home school our children in it (choosing not to send them to a fancy private school or public school).
So our home is far more than where we sleep and eat our meals (as Adrienne pointed out). We are here 24/7, unless we are teaching, traveling, at the Café’, or on an outing with our kids, and we use every square foot of it for various activities–Prana and home school related.
So I manifested our home to create a holistic life—because that is what my Spirit wanted to create–love, joy, inner peace, and freedom. A life that incorporated all aspects of my being under one roof. Without the commute. LOL!
So, thankfully and joyfully, I don’t have to get into a car and schlep several miles in traffic to a separate building to drop off my children to “learn” (I believe that children can and will learn in many settings and in many ways—not just when they are in a classical “school” setting), then get back into my car and schlep several miles in traffic to another building to do my “work” (I don’t believe in work—only in doing what you love and getting someone to pay you for doing it—so nothing is separated into “work” and “play”—it’s all the same), and then after a designated number of hours (which is usually determined by someone else—not your spirit), get back into my car and schlep to that other building to pick up my kids (who I haven’t seen for many hours) and then schlep home to have “family time.”
Please don’t take my words as disrespectful, demeaning, critical, or judgmental. I have always had a different way of looking at things (Please see the article THE REBEL at http://super-mom.com/?s=The+Rebel), and my Spirit is just not happy doing what I describe above. It makes me feel like I’m in a prison—not free (back to freedom, love, joy, inner peace).
My point here is not to deride (and I’m so, so not, so please don’t read it that way and write me a scathing post or email about how that’s what you do and how dare I criticize it—I am well aware that that is what many people do and it’s all good! As long as it’s your choice—what your Spirit wants).
My point is that there is much more to The White Castle than meets the eye/critical mind. It is part of a much bigger and holistic picture and dream, that has very little to do with “material wealth.”
On an interesting and related side note, I actually don’t get paid a cent to write for this blog.* I started it because it makes my heart sing to write and to spread the good word, and because my heart and Spirit guided me to do so. I wanted to create a place where Super-people could go to receive support, community, new ideas, guidance, and a sense of belonging and joy. (*To be totally accurate, I actually get paid about $25 dollars every two months from Blogher for the one ad on the home page, and that boils down to about 3 dollars a week.
There are always two sides to every coin. Abundance means that I can spread more PRANA and more LIGHT (open more Prana Power Yoga Centers and Prana Café’s). And so yes, I want abundance.
But even if I weren’t opening Prana Power Yoga Centers and Prana Cafés and I wanted abundance, would this make me wrong?
Absolutely not!
If that is what my heart guides me toward.
Again, to me, it’s all about Spirit, light, love, joy, inner peace, and freedom.
I think this is a super important point…that nothing anyone wants is “wrong” and I have never and would never say that.
I am an energy worker and light worker. To me, everything is about energy and light. So to use a food analogy (again, because everyone eats), I would rather you eat a cheeseburger that was made with love, and consume it with love and joy in your heart during and after you eat it, than to eat a perfectly balanced high vibration raw meal that someone prepared when they were angry and resentful and that you consume while feeling resentful, deprived, frustrated, and angry.
It’s also important to say that yes, I have been to Hell and back in this lifetime; however, does that make someone who hasn’t, and who has manifested abundance (in whatever form they chose and choose), wrong?
Absolutely not!
You don’t have to “earn” your abundance through pain and suffering my Sisters.
This is an antiquated belief and it’s not true. Abraham-hicks calls it “paddling upstream.”
You don’t get a medal for suffering and my mentioning where I’ve come from isn’t a plea for acceptance or validation (“Oh, Ok, she went through hell and had nothing, so now she can live in a white castle” LOL!), or, by any means, a suggestion that you must go through difficult times in order to then reap abundance.
Not so! Skip that part, my Sisters, and go straight for the joy—whatever brings it to you.
And inspire others to do the same.
I wish only joy, love, freedom, inner peace, and abundance for everyone, and hope that they can skip all that I went through in the first phase of my life because girl, I wouldn’t wish that on anyone.
So I hope this is helpful, Carrie, and clears up any confusion.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with the ascetic life, if that’s what you choose. But that’s your choice—your “pie” so to speak.
In some ways, Philippe and I really choose and very much prefer simplicity/minimalism. But in other ways (as you point out), we go for the abundance, Sister!
As I’ve said many times, I don’t apologize for creating abundance and I will continue to do so because my Spirit is a strong one.
My spirit digs some forms of abundance, as part of the overall plan of SPREADING THE LIGHT and BEING OF SERVICE, and it creates those forms effortlessly.
Namaste!
January 8th, 2010 at 2:51 pm
Hi again Carrie and Super-people,
It appears that I wrote so much that wordpress is saying I need to “moderate” whoever is writing so much.
LOL!
But I’m off to teach THE PRANA CLEANSE to about 50 people, so more later!
Namaste!
Taylor
January 8th, 2010 at 2:56 pm
But before I go
…
I wanted to say WELL SAID to everyone who’s posted on this very thought-provoking topic, and gratitude to Neetha for giving Julia some hands-on suggestions on how to incorporate a yoga practice into her life.
I had spaced doing this, so thanks!
Julia, I would add that there are many, many times when I cannot make it to Prana Power Yoga, and practice on my own at home.
Sometimes I wake up at four am to do so, before my little ones are awake.
Sometimes I practice with them crawling all over me, asking me ten bazillion questions as I attempt to breathe warrior breath, asking me to help them with their puzzle, etc.
Sometimes I practice before bed when they are fast asleep, because I know I will feel that much better after I practice and sleep that much sounder.
Yoga isn’t about going to a fancy studio or having fancy clothes or going to the Yoga Journal conference.
Yoga is a decision. A discipline. An intention.
And however you can make that happen my Sister, with all you have going on, is great!
And remember “At the moment of commitment, The Universe conspires to assist you.”
Always.
So you’ll be surprised.
Try it and see!
And keep me posted.
I support your quest for inner peace and joy.
Namaste!
Taylor
January 8th, 2010 at 6:33 pm
Miss T!
Thank you so much for your response(S)!!!
It is such a joy to read your writing and such an inspiration to ‘feel’ you writing all of this.
I have tears in my eyes because you help me realize anything is possible and that you can have whatever it is you want.
I never really believed that and now, slowly but surely I am.
Thank you thank you.
Excited for your super abundant Prana Cleanse this weekend!
Congrats!
January 8th, 2010 at 6:41 pm
I believe that others have raised intersting questions whether the acquisition of a very expensive house is in keeping with traditional yogic philosophy. And yes Bikram Choudry has been criticized for driving a Bentley to his yoga class and back. There are the “ten commandments ” of yogic philosophy, the Yamas, the second of which is Aparigraha, meaning to abstain from aquisitiveness. It is an interesting question to ask, and I respect those posters who did, as well as I do respect the author of this blog who brings yoga to people every day.
January 8th, 2010 at 7:57 pm
Taylor, like your kindergarten friend, I am sitting here with tears rolling down my face. They are tears of love and gratitude. I am so grateful the Universe has brought you back into my life after 25 years! (For readers, Taylor and I went to high school together)
Thank you Sister for your love & inspiration!
You, your blog and your readers are just what I need at this time! Today, I ordered my first book from Abraham-Hicks and tomorrow I will be taking my first Yoga class ever. Albeit, out here in Cali
~Namaste~
January 9th, 2010 at 12:56 am
Taylor,
Thank you for taking the time to reiterate your ideas, personal philosophies and your personal history. Looks like I might be out of the “Super-people” group for asking you a non-gushing question about your philosophies – ha ha.
I apologize if my inquiry (which I thought was quite valid – as did other posters) struck a chord – that was certainly not my intent. I’m just not one to buy into someone’s personal rhetoric without asking a few questions of my own. My inquiry was sincere and (I thought) respectful. I really am not quite sure why that elicited such a long and defensive response? Methinks the lady doth protest too much! Or at least, it certainly was not necessary to defend one’s home purchase (or any other purchase or clothing items one might own), my question was more along the lines of ‘how does this fit in with the rest of your philosophies?’ – it was that simple.
I think everyone who would read this blog, or is on a path to personal enlightenment and/or betterment, wishes the best for everyone, that would include me – I was simply searching for a yoga teaching program and wanted to be sure that the teachers’ philosophies were sound, consistent and somewhat aligned with my views. It was not meant to be a personal affront to anyone.
Just a clarification – I do believe that I understand (profoundly) where you’re coming from – from what you’ve shared, it seems we have very similar backgrounds/trauma histories and I too have had to work hard, against all odds, for my successes – and believe strongly that you need to put your directed thoughts and positive energy out into the universe in order to achieve your goals – but NO I do not live an ascetic lifestyle. And, as I am not a mommy (yet!), I must admit that I don’t have a strong opinion (yet!) on public vs. private vs. home school educations. BUT I do know that not everyone has the luxury of making a choice!
Wishing you continued success with your business and may the universe help you, me and everyone who reads this to further reveal our own personal “truths”.
January 9th, 2010 at 8:42 am
Carrie- I too have a very inquisitive perspective. I don’t believe I will ever fully buy into anyone’s personal ‘rhetoric’ as I strongly believe that while we can learn from others we must all align with our own truly unique and amazing spirit. We know all we need to know inside ourselves…. in that deep and peaceful place of light in each of our souls. Taylor is all about guiding people to their own wisdom… their own energy… their own spirit. She shares her beliefs and the methods she has learned that work for her as an example… with genuine acceptance, love, and appreciation for other beliefs and methods. No one is asking you to replace your wisdom with hers… certainly not Taylor. She is selflessly sharing her path because that is in alignment with her dharma. Hooray for your own perspectives. Hooray for your own beliefs. Hooray for your differences of opinion. Why the underlying hostility and ‘bite’ to your words though? There is no need for that here (or anywhere else).
January 9th, 2010 at 9:59 am
Well said Megan!
We really should be careful where we spend our energy! No wonder people get cranky/depressed/anxious! As a collective society we worry WAY too much about what others have/ are doing/ are eating/oh the list goes on….If something does not work for you DON’T GO THERE!!! LOL!!! Just a thought! And BTW, Taylor laughed out loud (rememeber T) when I asked her if Dorito’s were “raw”. I am not all “raw”… I guess if you could classify my eating it would be “medium rare”, but not once has Taylor ever tried to make me feel as though my way was not OK….clearly she and I have common ground and trust me we are as different as different can be, so again..can we all meet in the middle? Just say that thing that you want to say instead of tip toeing….I can’t speak for Tayor but I can say that if I were the one addressing the questions I would MUCH rather have someone say to me “No way Jose” than be passive aggressive and hostile..because while the first post was fine I agree with Megan in feeling the ‘sting’ of the follow up post.
January 9th, 2010 at 10:11 am
I have to take exception to the many posts about Taylor “selfishly sharing her wisdoms, opinions, etc.”. Let’s not forget that the Wells’ run a business that they profit from which is based on a lot of the philosophies that are posted on a regular basis (raw food, yoga, workshops), etc. Now, I’m all for successful hard working couples like Taylor and Phillippe benefiting from their tireless work and for making great investments especially in a business that promotes principles that have brought them such personal benefit. What I do take exception to is the defensive responses to the posts that question whether posting a picture of your new “mansion” on a blog that also happens to be your business website. It’s sort of like Ernie Boch posting a picture of his mansion on Martha’s Vineyard and saying “manifest what you want in life and buy my cars and you can have this too”. I have to admit my first reaction to seeing the picture of the “white castle” was – well, i guess that’s why they’re turning down the heat in the studios and I’m not able to get the sweat I pay a lot more money for than other studio’s. Guess they have to save to heat the mansion
. Seriously, you can’t expect to post a photo of a house that was acquired through the success of a business that your students/customers help pay for and not expect to get some responses that question your motives!! It’s reminds me of when I bought and listened to the CD “The Secret” and the guy is telling me that b/c I’ve paid $20 I, too, can make millions – well, I helped him by buying what he was “selling” instead of going to the library and getting a book for free that could have told me a lot of what he was “preaching”. It’s just something to think about. If everyone who ran a business posted the “things” they’ve acquired as a result of their success to their customers’ I think they would receive similar responses. It’s human nature. I think being quietly modest and grateful for being able to live in a home that makes you feel comfortable and grateful that the results of your hard work and “manifistations” has paid off should suffice. That is, of course, you think posting a picture will help you sell more of what your pitching!!!
January 9th, 2010 at 12:09 pm
Hi Carrie,
I actually did answer all of your questions, quite thoroughly, and I’m not “protesting” at all.
In fact, there isn’t a shred of defensiveness in my response, because I have nothing to defend.
My yogic and life philosophies are very clear from my very prolific response. I give a lot of love and energy to everything that I do and do everything 100%, and wanted to be perfectly clear on my response, hence it’s length.
These are my yogic and life philosophies—but they are just my opinion—and what I believe, live by, and teach. You don’t have to agree with them, as I don’t have to agree with yours. Take what you want and leave the rest. And that’s a beautiful thing (please see the Abraham-hicks pie analogy in my response).
That was (part of) my whole point. Everyone has the right to be who he or she is and find his or her own joy and live the best life ever. And it doesn’t matter what anyone else chooses—just focus on what makes your heart sing and allow everyone else to do the same.
Have the best day ever!
Namaste!
Taylor
January 9th, 2010 at 12:58 pm
WOW!! This is an amazing post, and it’s so interesting to read all of the responses. It has shown me in a powerful way that people truly get what they look for.
I am grateful to you, Taylor, for your wisdom. Your concrete examples of what you have chosen to do with your energy are quite enlightening. Hearing about an idea does one thing, but hearing how someone actually makes it work in her own life does something far greater.
We are all on our own paths, but I am so grateful to have some insight into yours, Taylor. You are an inspiration. Although I may have my own ways of looking at certain things, your insights are always thought-provoking, and the way you have chosen to live your life is truly inspiring to me.
Thank you to all of you that have responded to this post, as well. I have learned a great deal by reading it.
January 9th, 2010 at 3:38 pm
Taylor- you have very eloquently shared a beautiful story rich with many deep lessons. I am very grateful for the path you and Phellipe have chosen and the impact that has had on the world we all live in. You were both going to be very successful people no matter what career path you chose… how wonderful that you were able to choose one that aligns with your dharma and spreads the insights and encourages all to find their own freedom and peace. I certainly would not expect you to give up other career paths to do so in a forced poverty. I am a technical consultant. I work for a company that makes money off of the work that I do. I am paid a salary for that work… which is only a portion of the money they make from my work. Business is business. We live in a free society. My skills are marketable and I will go to work for a company that I enjoy working for and that pays me a fair market salary. I donate my time and money to causes that I politically support but I certainly don’t donate ALL of my time and money to them. Like you, I don’t chase flashy materialistic items… but I also do not apologize for the comforts I am gratefully able to enjoy and provide for my daughter as a single mom.
We all have free choice and live in a free market. I go to prana yoga because I feel that I receive value that excedes the cost. Anyone that feels differently should not go. I would never cross the very serious boundary to then expect you to spend/ donate your money in the way that I would see fit because I paid for and received services at your business.
I love your spirit and your loving heart. I am very grateful that you and Phellipe dedicate your time and your lives to spreading your insights and encouragement. Your light and energy is precious. Spread it like you would precious water. To get it out to the most people in the most effective way you want to focus your time and energy on buckets that have the capacity to hold that water. If you begin to put water in a bucket that has holes in it… with no desire to have those holes patched.. wish them love and light and move along to the next bucket that is ready to receive. You will never reach all people.. but you are reaching many and you really are creating change in this world. Thank you.
January 9th, 2010 at 3:56 pm
Very well said Suzanne! You know exactly where I’m coming from and appreciate your honest and realistic perspective and 100% agree. This blog is no doubt helpful for many, but make no mistake, it IS a sales tool for the Wells’ businesses as well. Having said that, I want to say that I respect everyones opinion regarding this particular blog entry. I believe that discourse is healthy AND we don’t always have to agree NOR gush over each other’s every utterance either! I want to thank you Taylor for giving us the opportunity to even have this discussion. Wishing you and everyone else who reads this, peace, health, happiness and prosperity (whatever that means to YOU!).
Namaste.
January 9th, 2010 at 5:10 pm
Yoga, unlike the technical consulting field is a business (a big business in the US now) built on the 5,000 year old philosophy of selfless devotion to helping others achieve inner peace. Unlike technical consulting yogis adhere to a system of inner and outer discipline. Live simply so that others may simply live. Namaste
January 10th, 2010 at 7:02 am
Dear Suzanne,
THE MANIFESTATION is about the POWER in you and every one of us to create anything and everything that we want, and to be and do anything and everything that we want.
It’s about tuning into that power to create the best day ever, and the best life ever.
Here’s to you and every Super-person on the planet creating the joy, love, inner peace, and freedom that is your/their birthright, and inspiring those around you to tune into their power and PURE POTENTIAL to do the same–changing your/their life–and the planet–one thought at a time.
Namaste!
Taylor
January 10th, 2010 at 7:13 am
Dear all Super-people,
Whew! I’m relieved that tomorrow is Monday.
LOL!
After the energy shift in the comments on my blog during the last few days, from light to darkness—support and love to criticism and judgment (not in what was said, but in the energy with which it was delivered)—I seriously considered throwing in the towel last night.
I created this blog two years ago this Mother’s Day with the intention of creating a place where Super-people could go to receive the love, support, community, and inspiration that they all deserve (not as a “business tool” as some of you have suggested. But as I repeatedly say in my writing, when you are doing your dharma and following your heart, everything flows together and fits together and supports each other in a holistic way—effortlessly. This is the way of The Law Of Attraction and the abundance that it creates. Everyone and everything wins).
One of my “strengths” is that I always see, expect, and believe in the good in all people and things.
One of my “challenges” is that I always see, expect, and believe in the good in all people and things.
What I mean by this is that I can be naïve. I literally don’t see the negative, the judgment, the criticism, the dark side—and when other people do, it surprises me every time.
I’ve been told this many times by my many teachers (“Taylor, you are too ‘airy fairy/everyone is good to the core’—wake up! See all sides of people and protect yourself…don’t be so open and loving–or you’re going to get burned!” and/or/ “Taylor, you need to have a thicker skin,” and so on.)
But I choose not to.
I choose to continue to always see and believe in the good in all beings, and because we always get what we see and believe in, this is for the highest good of this planet.
So, after a good night’s sleep and a morning meditation, I have decided that I am going to continue with my blog.
I am a warrior of Peace and I know my dharma, my intention, and what emanates from my heart, soul, and mind, no matter how misunderstood I may be by any one person.
I know that there is no “dark switch,” and that all I have to do is continue to shine the light on the darkness, and then there will be light.
One article, one comment, one blog, one yoga class, one raw food meal, one consultation at a time.
Together, we CAN create the best world ever.
And I’m on it!
Have the best day ever!
Namaste!
“To be a star, you must shine your own light, follow your own path, and not worry about the darkness, for that is when the stars shine brightest.”
January 10th, 2010 at 7:15 am
I am very grateful for having the opportunity to witness Taylor’s process over the last 20 years. I saw the amazing and complete transformation when she found yoga and raw food. The changes were so profound to Taylor that she had an extreme amount of enthusiasm and drive to share what she had discovered with others. She lives, breaths, and talks yoga, raw food, and healthy peaceful living. She has done this far longer than she has had anything to gain from it. Fortunately, she and Phellipe made the powerful choice to leave other successful careers to follow their dharma and share their discovery with others through yoga studios and a raw food restaurant. This was a natural extension of the lives they were already living and the messages they were already sharing. To think that they are typical entreprenuers selling something as shallow as the get rich quick programs that clearly get rich by selling you their bs is a profound misunderstanding of who the ‘Wells’ are.
January 10th, 2010 at 7:46 am
yes, i agree that the vibe on this thread has gotten a bit dark — like i thought the point of the story taylor originally told was to show how she and philippe created and flowed effortlessly into the best home ever for them and how we can all get in the flow (“downstream” to use abraham lingo), to make the lives we dream of having?
i think it is so not the intention of posting the house picture to debate whether or not it is right or yogic for them to live in a house….first of all, even if they were totally materialistic, which we all know is not the case, so what?
and in fact, I DID manifest an AMAZING pair of size 8 shoes last month! wow! but that is a whole other story….
namaste
shanti
January 10th, 2010 at 8:27 am
Taylor, I am so glad to hear that you are not going to give up your blog. So much would be lost if you did. I am so grateful for your blog, as I don’t live in an area near any of your yoga centers. I am constantly amazed by your spirit and the way you choose to walk through life. You are a gift to so many. I am glad to hear that you will not be dissuaded by a few people who choose to see something quite different. As always, that says more about them than about you.
Thank you for all that you do. You are an inspiration to countless people who have the good fortune of being in your path.
January 10th, 2010 at 8:50 am
I agree at the turn of the postings. They were all inspiring in the first two thirds less so at the end. this was my favorite post absolutely ever before there was even one comment, and I received so much light from some of the comments as well. Namaste and thank you! Caroline
January 10th, 2010 at 9:33 am
as taylor and philippe’s buyer agent (and more importantly, their dear friend), i wanted nothing more than to help manifest this house. but as a real estate professional, i knew the current lending climate, the hurdles ahead of us.
but this deal was different, my usual guarded optimism gave way to the wells affirmative belief in the outcome. from that 1st phone call from taylor i knew it WOULD happen. when i see their drishti, it is a profound reminder that the only real hurdle to our goals- be they tangible or intangible- is our own fear. fear of success and fear of failure. believe me, the wells’ know no fear.
not sure who got the true reward, taylor and philippe who now live in the best house ever, or me who now has a deeper belief in the power of the universe (when we allow it!) and a deeper connection with the entire wells family.
gratitude!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
January 10th, 2010 at 2:19 pm
OK really Taylor!
After this week can we pretty please have something on organizing or something (I am laughing as I typed because you said ‘stay tuned’), but MAN…anything to lighten the mood up in here?????
January 10th, 2010 at 5:46 pm
You’ll love tomorrow’s article Chrissy.
It’s definitely a light one.
Namaste!
Taylor
January 10th, 2010 at 5:58 pm
Alot like the law of attraction, I believe we see what we are looking for. If you’re looking for love & kindness in the world & the people around you – you’ll find it. If you’re looking for violence & anger – you’ll find it. If you read this website (and others) looking for inspiration & hope – you’ll find it. If you read looking for examples of yogis just trying to make a buck off of you – you’ll find it.
Asking “why” we need/want material things if great…I think examining the “why” behind anything is great! When someone observes your practice, they don’t know from looking at you why you practice. And they can’t know what you are feeling, where your energy lies, or the motivation behind your practice (unless you share this with them). You may have a “beautiful” practice & the whole time be criticizing yourself & judging others. What kind of a practice is that? Similarly, know one can know why you want to live in a big house or in a yurt. What your intentions are behind driving a big SUV or tiny Smart Car. If you have it & do it because it bring you joy & it flows & it fits your life – rock on! Live it & love it! If you have it or want it so that other people will think you are smart or powerful, or because you want to be like other people – what kind of a life is that?
My understanding of aparigraha is non-hoarding. The yogi doesn’t need to hoard things because she knows & trusts that what she needs & wants will flow into her life when it is right. She will manifest it.
I believe that it is human nature to help one another, to love one another & to make this world a better place. Doesn’t have to be in a big, dramatic, selfless way – maybe you just hold the door for that Mom struggling with her stroller. Don’t be afraid to ask “why”. But maybe instead of asking why about others, ask it about yourself. And look for what you want – in yourself as much as in others and in the world around you. Manifest it!
Is my life perfect? For me, right now – yes! That’s not to say that it isn’t challenging & there are plenty of things that I am always tweaking. But I’m not giving energy to what I don’t have or the adversities I face/have faced. When”bad” things happen to me, I do my best to put a smile on face, keep breathing & look for the upside. Some days it’s easy…other days, I’m fakin’ it ’til I make it!
But everyday, I thank God & the Universe for who I am & who & what have in my life. And for Abundance as it appears to me.
You may read this & think I totally have my head in the clouds…but in the words of John Lennon:
“You may say that I’m a dreamer
But I’m not the only one
I hope someday you’ll join us
And the world will be as one”
Oh – and I just can’t resist…if you’re looking for heat???….we were at 100 degrees & rockin’ at Prana Winchester yesterday & Prana Newton today!
Peace Sisters!
January 10th, 2010 at 10:22 pm
I know its Monday now, but I just read all these comments, considered writing Taylor a private e-mail and then decided to just put it out there. I think it is such a shame that Taylor even had to consider closing this blog…I have found so much support, inspiration and just genuine happiness through the articles, the thought of losing that is so sad! If it weren’t for her, it would have taken me much longer to find out about many of the awesome things she talks about – if at all!! (Example: I just read what she wrote on “paring down,” and proceeded to clean out my entire room – 5 bags of clothes and junk now sits in the back of my car. My mom has been begging me to do that for weeks. I feel so much better/less weighed down, and it was so easy! I’m telling you this is powerful stuff
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If Taylor is making an income by spreading the word, and her light, that’s GREAT! How else could she efficiently reach so many people??To question that is so ridiculous! Reading Taylor’s words makes me feel happy, content, free, full of potential. You can’t put a price on that!!
January 11th, 2010 at 8:29 am
There is a quote that I love that completely personifies Taylor and Philippe, and how they consciously walk through the world.
I *think* the original quote is about Eleanor Roosevelt, but I’m not sure:
“She would rather light a candle than curse the darkness.”
I think of this quote literally hundreds of times a day. When I choose to sulk (which I choose a lot!!) instead of shine. When I know only I can turn things around.
Darkness is ALWAYS there. Are you going to just curse it, or are you going to shine that light that each and every one of us has inside.
Shine on, Sistah.. we need You.
January 11th, 2010 at 7:08 pm
On a sort of funny note…I have met Taylor only once…she taught the first yoga class I’d ever taken…I came in (clueless) with my (clueless) co-ed indoor soccer team, I was next to a guy friend who was wearing a SPORTS BRA as a joke, and I was CHEWING GUM!) Although we were not disruptive, I apologize if anyone was at that class with me
Although that day was perhaps embarrassing, it was so worth it. I have been practicing for a year now and have felt a shift in my mindset- I am a more confident, self-aware, and positive person….So I don’t “know” Taylor, but I get so much from learning about her ways of creating positive energy, joy, and inner peace. I do, however, take what I want and leave the rest. For ANYONE reading her blog, the best thing you can keep in mind is to read with an open mind (and this goes for responses too) and to TAKE WHAT YOU WANT AND LEAVE THE REST, which is exactly what she advised in a previous response. Everyone who reads must do that because no one but Taylor is Taylor. Taylor’s ways of doing things will not be perfect for everyone. I am grateful that she shares so much because the pieces that I take may be different from the pieces that anothah sistah takes! Finally, of course Taylor and Philippe make a living by running their yoga studios, their cafe, and consulting. But it seems that they do all of this FIRST AND FOREMOST because they love, live, and breathe it. They are obviously not driven by a desire to be profitable…if so, there would be ads all over this blog and Taylor surely would have accepted John’s marketing opportunity (instead she gave him a free class!). They do what they love. And people can take it or leave it.
January 11th, 2010 at 8:19 pm
I have been reading your blog and practicing yoga for some time now. Unfortunately I do not practice at Prana any longer because it is cost prohibitive, as is Prana Cafe.
I work with homeless and incarcerated women, both of whom could certainly benefit from the type of good karmic action you endorse and promote. I would invite you (or challenge you) to offer your wisdom, service, and consultancy to those who cannot pay you back in dollars. Teaching a raw food prep class to 50 paying clients and offering the 31 in 31 challenge to countless other paying clients are surely transformative and life-giving. Imagine how transformative it would be to offer similar opportunities to even a fraction of the women who are homeless, incarcerated, abused or malnourished right here in our own community. I am not suggesting you turn your business into a non-profit organization by any means…I do, however, invite you to ‘pay forward’ the abundance, good karma and positive manifestation to those less fortunate.
January 12th, 2010 at 6:48 am
HI Anonymous!
I am such a believer in volunteer work and would love to share with you now that we have touched on the subject….this is a request to ALL yogis (and I am not trying to hit anyone up because believe me..I know first hand what that feels like “Can your hubby “fix” my ticket…”can I park in your driveway for the fireworks even though I haven’t seen or talked to you all year” Etc. Etc. LOL).
Long story short…..I KNOW that yoga would be so beneficial on the 6th floor at Children’s hospital. This is the floor where families with Cancer fight the illness alongside their kiddos! What some of these families and staff go through is astounding and inspiring! I would LOVE to see a regular yoga class offered (pro bono of course) there because these Mom’s and Dad’s DO NOT SEE THE LIGHT OF DAY!!! They are in those hospital rooms with their kids 24 7! The Doctors and Nurses also need a break and a little TLC!!! My husband’s friend’s family walked this walk with their son (he is happily in remission and doing GREAT), and they have come through it…I just rememeber Mommy being in that room away from her other 2 kiddos for 6 months and if that doesn’t represent the love that a parent has for her child well I don’t know quite what does….could she have used some yoga at that time…OH YES!!!!Just a thought!
January 12th, 2010 at 12:46 pm
Hi Anonymous!
I love your post and couldn’t agree more with you about the importance of making yoga accessible to those who can’t walk into the studio and pay the drop-in rate.
I was one of those students some years ago and was SO happy to learn that Prana offers many opportunities to trade for free yoga! Very soon after I tried yoga at Prana I became a Studio Assistant and checked people in for class in exchange for yoga. This allowed me to practice more and more, bringing about so many amazing shifts in my life. Now I teach for Prana! None of this would have happened had I not been able to participate in the various trade opportunities that Prana has available.
If you can make it to the studio, there’s a trade opportunity for you. If you’re interested email me at mandy@pranapoweryoga.com and I’ll let you know more about becoming a studio assistant and point you in the right direction.
I also hear what you are saying about bringing yoga to those who can’t make it to the studio. Prana is a very proud supporter of yogaHOPE. One of our teachers, Sue Jones, founded this amazing organization that does just this – brings yoga to underserved populations. We support yogaHOPE in a variety of ways, including hosting a fundraising event, the YogaHOPE Open House, each year in December.
Our support is growing as yogaHOPE is growing. And we look forward to being a part of reaching more and more people every year.
Chrissy, I LOVE your idea of bringing yoga to Children’s Hospital. Sue and I have actually talked a bit about setting up some training for child trauma specific yoga instruction. This is something that REALLY speaks to me as a teacher and hopefully it’s in our future!! Stay tuned!
So really, I would like to bow to Taylor & Philippe for doing their part in making yoga accessible to EVERYONE. I feel so lucky to now be a part of spreading the light!!
love to all,
Mandy
January 12th, 2010 at 3:50 pm
Mandy I would have had no idea if you had not written about YogaHope created by a Prana Teacher. That is wonderful! Props for that!! And Chrissy, yoga teachers should give back. That is part of what they do, it is called karma yoga. They are called to give back. I know of teachers who offer free classes to cancer survivors in my area, free to vets, etc. so I am sure you will find a yogi especially willing to help out parents of patients at Children’s and perhaps they will indeed be from Prana. Best of luck.
January 12th, 2010 at 6:06 pm
Hi Joss!
I am seriously considering taking a yoga certification class, because I really feel that in addition to suggesting a solution, I should also be a part! Another way to help for ANYONE…yogi or not is to give blood and platelets! Children’s Hospital Boston is in DIRE NEED (as are the other hospitals..well EVERYWHERE!!!)
Anyone who is interested in donating can contact Children’s:
Call us: 617-355-6677 or email us:blooddonorcenter@chboston.org
***I promise anyone who donates…when you leave you will walk out feeling like a rock star..oh and you’ll need a snack and some OJ!
XO!
Chrissy
January 12th, 2010 at 10:53 pm
Hi Anonymous,
When I first moved to Massachusetts I started practicing at the Prana Power Yoga in Newton. I did not have very much money and I was very excited to learn that I could participate in the work-study program. I took this opportunity and ran with it. I trade 2-3 classes a week. I have gained so much through this one volunteer program. I feel I have a wonderful connection to my teachers, volunteers and the students that come to Prana.
After about a year I decided I wanted to take it further. I wanted to get into the Prana Yoga Teacher-Training Program. The economy had just shifted and I could not afford this program. I talked to Taylor about my desire and my financial challenge and she looked at me and said, “ We can help, you can trade for Teacher Training. She let me know that they needed help with the retail in the studios and that this would be a perfect trade due to my background in retail. I jumped for Joy and accepted the trade. I start Teacher Training next weekend. I also turned the retail trade in to a paying job J
The Prana Power Yoga Work-Study Program changed my life. Thank You Taylor and Philippe for paying it Forward!
January 13th, 2010 at 5:36 am
Chrissy,
I put a request out there for yoga instruction at BCH. Can you please email me at jsyoganow@gmail.com to provide appropriate contact info for BCH 6th floor? I hope to get some responses for you. May all beings be free from suffering. Namaste.
January 13th, 2010 at 6:21 am
JOSS!!!!
Music to my ears! Let me put you in touch with the Mom who went through this with her boy!!!!! She knows the place inside and out and would be able to offer WAY more than I could!
XO!
Chrissy
January 13th, 2010 at 12:19 pm
Dear Anonymous,
It’s funny, because Ray and I were just talking about this yesterday, how anyone can practice at PRANA because of our awesome and extensive volunteer program.
There are signs about this just about everywhere at PRANA and on the website; however, I’ll just remind you and other readers here that Philippe and I turn no one away from PRANA because of money issues.
Our volunteer program is amazing and we are very proud of it and at this point, we have about 200 volunteers!
Our volunteer community is a beautiful community and we love and are grateful for every single one of our volunteers.
You can be an SA (studio assistant) and sign people in for a class to take that class for FREE, you can do marketing for PRANA, you can help clean, you can help with retail, you can help with website design, you can help with updating the website, you can stuff envelopes, you can paint, you can package product for pranaraw.com, you can look for fabric samples for the studio changing room curtains, you can help with bookkeeping, you can assist in our classes, you can sub at Prana (after being screened by Lorraine and Philippe or me and accepted, each sub gets a certain number of free classes per month),you can help at charity functions such as the yogaHOPE Holiday Open House, you can babysit, and/or you can tell us what you do best and love to do and help us in that way if it flows for our community You name it! We are open.
So saying the cost is prohibitive is actually not accurate (as a few readers have already pointed out).
I am sorry and surprised that you were not aware of this program. Please contact one of our Studio Coordinators at any of our four Yoga Centers to choose what fits you best (Newton: Katie, Cambridge: Ray, Winchester: Heather, NYC: Shari).
I have many, many stories of people who said they wanted to practice but couldn’t afford it, and when I offered them every trade opportunity imaginable, they said “Uh, no thanks.”
I had a man come to me once and say that he really, really wanted to practice but couldn’t afford it. He said he was a schoolteacher and he had tons of time to practice but his salary prohibited him from doing so.
I was so excited to tell him about all of our wonderful volunteer opportunities and to welcome him into our community and to the transformation that is inevitable when you step onto your mat regularly.
After telling him about the many, many things he could do—his choice!–he the responded that he didn’t really “feel like” volunteering (after he had said he had lots of free time). I suggested maybe he post fliers, when he’s out and about since it in particular seemed to fit his lifestyle well, and to this he also said no.
So sometimes people just aren’t ready to get on their mat and so they look for reasons why they “can’t.” We give them the many opportunities– but again and again, they find reasons why they can’t or don’t want to (in his case).
And that’s cool.
“I do not judge the evolution of others. What and where they are right now is for their highest good.”
Regarding ‘paying forward’ the abundance, good karma and positive manifestation to those less fortunate, we’re on it Sister!
As Mandy pointed out, we are very involved in supporting yogaHOPE, which brings yoga to women in shelters and safe houses.
As Mandy didn’t point out, we also give donations regularly of many different items—yoga mats, yoga clothes, regular clothes, DVDs, food, etc.—to places like The Women’s Lunch Place, The Elizabeth Stone House (where I used to volunteer), and so on. Some of our special classes require students to bring donations in order to enter the class.
If I were to guess, I’d say that about 50% of the PRANA POWER YOGA DVD’s that we created have been GIVEN away. If someone asks for DVD’s for charity, we always say “Absolutely!” I also have my own ideas to whom to give them to. For example, I have sent boxes of my DVD’s to prisons to give to the Super-people there who need a way back to the light.
I am deeply invested in bringing yoga to all Super-people, those with resources, and those without.
I volunteer to teach yoga many times every year at benefits such as THE 108 SUN SALUTATIONS (raising money for PATHWAYS TO WELLNESS which provides alternative healing to people living with AIDS and those who don’t have many financial resources), GLOBAL MALA FOR PEACE, and others.
If someone asks me to teach a benefit, I’ll do it, in a heartbeat and with joy.
And that’s why when I learned about yogaHOPE at the 108 a few years ago, I said to Sue, the founder and now a good friend and teacher at PRANA, “OMG, what a great idea! Why didn’t I think of that?!”
(LOL).
So rock on Anonymous, for working with the population you work with (as I’ve written many times in other articles and posts, I used to work with the same population when I worked clinically in Psychology in places like Dimock Community Health Center, The South End Community Health Center, The Providence Center, The Elizabeth Stone House, etc).
We bow to you and to all of our other Sisters and Brothers spreading the light and making this planet a better place.
Namaste!
Taylor