about Super-Mom
Super-mom.com is a celebration of Moms.
A place to find support, insight, inspiration, humor, advice, and connection. A place to remember who you are, and why you were chosen to be a parent, the most important job there is. Come home to Super-mom.com, where you’re always welcome and you’re always honored and respected—just as you are.
Welcome to a celebration of being a Mom…a Super-mom, in fact. Because that’s what you are. Yes, you.
Now, listen, if you’re thinking right now “No, I’m not a Super-mom because…” and going into the past about something that you didn’t do “just right” or “perfectly,” or whatever, let that go, Sistah, and listen to this.
You are about to go on a whole new journey of loving being a Mom—a Super-mom. Yes, every moment—riding the ups and downs like a wave, and in time, making the downs mostly a thing of the past, and when they do happen, leaving the guilt behind and knowing they are simply something to gain wisdom from so you can find even more joy.
I love being a Mom, and although I am and do many other “things” in my life, I value and cherish my precious role of nurturing, teaching, and guiding shiny young lights into and in the world—wise little teachers who honor me by calling me “Mom.”
But over the years I’ve noticed and been puzzled by a general disrespect and non-support of Moms. Even before I was a Mom myself, I couldn’t understand this—how could something so honorable, so amazing, so important, such an act of service to our planet, be seen in such a negative light?
I even noticed that Moms themselves were buying into this mind-set. As I heard things like “Oh, I don’t work, I’m ‘just’ a stay-at-home-Mom,’” I replied with “are you kidding me?! Why are you saying ‘just?!’ That’s the most important job in the world!!”
I meant what I said.
And that was BEFORE I had my first child.
And girl, let me tell you, after ten months of pregnancy, 26 weeks of nausea 24-7, and 36 hours of labor, I came into my own regarding this topic.
What I knew intuitively before I had Madison (now ten), burned brighter than ever.
I felt a kinship—a strong connection–with every Mother who’d ever walked the planet.
I expected to find this strong connection out there in the world, holding my baby girl in my arms, but again, was stunned to find a general energy of negativity around Motherhood—even within the Mom-hood circle.
“What’s going on?!” I asked myself, as I noticed Moms segregating themselves into camps at the playground (the “stay-at-home-Mom camp,” the “working Mom* camp” etc.), judging each other for their parenting choices, and generally, taking the dark road of negativity into inevitable suffering. (*please note that it is my belief that all Moms are “working Moms,” so I do take issue with this term—stay tuned for more on this in an article).
Almost eleven years later, I wrote an article called “Super mom,” intended to teach, support, and call together all Moms on this planet.
The response to my article was incredible, and Super-mom.com was born.
The intention of this website is for it to feel like home to you, Super-mom.
Because you are a Super-mom, in all of your glory.
I support you and I am here with you during this amazing journey of Super-mom-hood.
You will find support, insight, helpful and inspirational information, good reads, good eats and much more on this website, and, like the flow of life, it will always be changing and growing.
I welcome you to the beginning of the rest of your life as a Super-mom.
A life where you will feel joy more often than not, and in the “not” times, you will find what you need to shift back—right here.
You are NOT ALONE and YOU ROCK.
Have the best day ever!!
Namaste!!
Super-mom Taylor


June 17th, 2008 at 8:33 pm
Taylor:
For stylish moms who need smart solutions for getting their wardrobe spruced up for work or play — going to an ETCETERA Fall clothing showcase in the privacy of a local reps home will do wonders. Women can make appointments to go on their own or with friends to get a handle of the Fall Fashion trends, trying on amazing clothing and make smart purchases that extend their wardrobe and make life easy. No more running around from store to store to get the outfits together, No more costly fashion mistakes — it’s time to check it out. This July 21 to August 4 — across Massachusetts there are a number of amazing women showcasing the Fall collection. It’s free to go and trust me — it will change the way you shop. Consultants showcase the collections 4x a year for short periods of time — once the show is over the clothing is gone and the designers in NYC are hard at work on the next collection. I’d be happy to send over sketches or images of the latest collection and contact details for getting signed up.
Also ETCETERA is hiring right now in Massachusetts and this is a flexible career. They are indeed hiring style consultants to showcase the collection 4x a year — turning their home into a boutique and they are hiring regional managers. The president of the company started as a sales rep and today runs the NYC base company from her office in Dallas — demonstrating that flexibility is something she believes in 100%.
Kathleen Lucente
512 217-6352
June 19th, 2008 at 3:27 am
Thanks Kathleen.
This sounds like a helpful thing for busy Super-moms who don’t want to spend a lot of time shopping.
Personally, I’m a minimalist. With years of yoga came years of giving things away to those who needed it more than I, and I now happily have one pair of jeans, one pair of spring/summer sandals, one pair of fall/winter shoes, one pair of gloves, one hat. Energy is everything—including material objects—and so I only have what I love and what I use, and I put my energy into other shiny things besides consumerism.
But there’s absolutely nothing wrong with shopping (“not that there’s anything wrong with that!!”)
and many Super-moms enjoy it wholeheartedly, so thank you for helping to make it a better, easier, and simpler experience for them.
Have the best day ever!!
Namaste!!
Taylor
June 27th, 2008 at 7:15 pm
Eventually, I will catch up with all the posts and comments on this site. It took me a while to gather the courage to even visit - but so glad I did.
Taylor, I loved your reply to this post - I have friends whose closets would pass for mini-boutiques (size 2 boutiques, but there you have it) - and I’ve felt weird that my whole wardrobe fits into a couple of garment bags, a suitcase, and half a Lane chest. When I have money to spare, I’ve always been one to spend it on a massage vs. a new pair of jeans.
That said, this year, I’ve found myself simplifying more. A few months ago, I began working through a beautiful little book called The Circle by Laura Day. “The Circle,” as Laure describes it, is is a transformative space, an energetic state of being within which all things are possible. The language is a bit new-agey but the metaphor - of The Circle - is a powerful one.
The journey through The Circle takes place in three stages: initiation, apprenticeship, and mastery. Each stage is divided into three elements, and each element brings its own challenges, and its own reward, or gift.
The fifth element is “making space” and, according to Laura, the gift of making space is transformation
Interestingly, I feel as if I am undergoing some sort of transformation, and as I catch (fleeting) glimpses of my emerging self, I am becoming aware of incongruities in my life, things that do not fit with my so-called “New Reality.”
While working through the “fifth element,” I went through my closets and got rid of half my (limited stock of) clothes. Stuff that was old, or just not me (Armani suits, etc.). I realized one reason I was clinging to things was fear, that I would not have money in the future to replace them. Even though I haven’t worn them in years, and they have nothing to do with who I am today, I’ve just sort of clung to these remnants of my former self. Cleaning house was a bit of an affirmation, that I’ll have plenty of money for more clothes in the future, should I really need or want them.
But it was also a way of “making space” for a new, different, reality.
Funny thing is, since my “spring cleaning” I’ve yet to go shopping. I’m even finding more to give away. I find I’m enjoying the space I’ve created.
Love,
Elizabeth
June 28th, 2008 at 12:20 pm
Thanks Elizabeth.
I love Laura Day’s book “The Circle,” and I’m so glad you’ve been utilizing all you learned by reading it to “make space” and transform.
You beautifully described Laura’s book—well done.
It’s funny, because before reading your comment, I taught my 9:30 am class this morning in Cambridge about “creating space and being open.”
I was inspired by this quote by the Buddha:
“Let yourself be open and life will be easier. A spoon of salt in a glass of water makes the water undrinkable. A spoon of salt in a lake is almost unnoticed.”
So creating space, whether in your body and your mind on your yoga mat or in your closet by giving away even more clothes, is a wonderful thing. On all levels.
Enjoy the process of your transformation, the fleeting glimpses of your emerging self, and making the space for your new, different reality. You will find that as time goes on, the glimpses of your emerging self will become longer, until you no longer recognize your former self. Good stuff!!
For many years after I began my yoga practice, I gave away one bag of “stuff” every single day. Every single day!! And there was still more to give away. It’s truly amazing how much “stuff” we all have, and how once you begin to give it away, you begin to see how unnecessary it all is. And how exhausting it is to have around. It felt so good to give things away, and still does. We give something away every single day in the pink house, and my children are so used to doing so that when they receive a gift, they immediately tell me what they are going to give away to balance out the gift.
So keep it up Elizabeth and Have the best day ever!!
Namaste!!
Taylor
July 11th, 2008 at 8:38 am
I love the concept of this website because, as a first time mom, I am repeatedly reminded of the unquantifiable power of parenthood and the gift that is being a mother. Since my pregnancy, I began (periodically) reading about incredible acts of strength performed by mothers for their children: physical, emotional and spiritual acts of strength. The greatest examples of this strength are other moms I have the privilege of knowing. I believe that every mom should be recognized for that capacity, and am so grateful hearing the shared wisdom from so many moms.
In response to the comment re: “stuff”…my husband and I were forced into a re-examination of our “stuff” as we entered into significant financial difficulties when deciding to pursue doctoral degrees (at the same time) and then realized we were expecting! What could have been (and sometimes still can be…depending on our perspectives) a time of feeling paralyzed…it has been an incredible opportunity for us to realize how little we ACTUALLY NEED in life. While it can still be difficult to want that “special haircut” or a “dinner out” at that restaurant…our challenge has led us to develop a much deeper appreciation for the simple things in life that we all have and often overlook…like going on dates to the library…or napping with our 10month old son.
July 11th, 2008 at 12:10 pm
Thanks Super-mom Maria.
I love your words “the unquantifiable power of parenthood” and I love the idea of going on dates to the library.
It IS amazing when we realize how little we actually need in life, and how what is truly most precious we always have right in our hearts, no matter what the external circumstances.
Have the best day ever!!
Namaste!!
Taylor
August 10th, 2008 at 9:21 pm
Hi Taylor,
I am not a mom yet but I love your website and practice prana power yoga. I saw a video of you the other day talking about the benefits of juicing, and I heard you mention that Prana might be hosting a retreat in Jamaica in January. Is this true?? If so, I would really like to hear a little bit more about it. Thanks!!
August 11th, 2008 at 1:30 pm
Hi Lizzie.
I’m so glad that you love Super-mom.com and practice at Prana!!
You should do the FIRST EVER PRANA CLEANSE September 12, 13, and 14th.
It’s going to rock!!
All of the info is on the website–pranapoweryoga.com–so check it out.
There are four levels–one that is perfect for everyone.
And we just had a meeting about our January retreat…it’s happening and it’s going to be awesome.
We are finalizing the location…and are leaning toward a fantastic place in Mexico instead of Jamaica (not Maya Tulum…a different retreat center).
So stay tuned Lizzie…I’ll send out an email blast with all the details as soon as the location is confirmed.
The dates are January 17-24th.
Have the best day ever!!
Namaste!!
Taylor
August 11th, 2008 at 8:20 pm
Thanks for getting back to me!! The cleanse in September and the retreat to Mexico in January BOTH sound amazing. I will definitely stay tuned!!
August 26th, 2008 at 6:58 am
Beautifull design
Thanks, webmaster.
September 6th, 2008 at 1:52 pm
Hi Taylor,
im sure you will be sending out an email blast soon about the prana retreat in January, but I am trying to plan a few trips and was wondering if the location in Mexico was finalized?? Thanks Taylor! Hope the cleanse goes well this weekend!
Best,
Lizzie
September 7th, 2008 at 5:32 am
Hi Lizzie,
Funny you should write…we are in the process of sending out the email blast for Prana Mexico!!
We just need to wait a day or two to send it since I am sending out one more blast for the Cleanse and I don’t want people’s email boxes to be OVERLY abundant.
We are going to the most gorgeous place!!
Here’s a bit of the blast I’m going to send out:
Prana in Mexico
with Taylor, Philippe, Jacqui, and Rebecca
Winter 2009 Yoga and Cleansing Retreat to the Glorious Island Mujeres Na Balam Beach Hotel
January 17 - 24th, 2009
The time to sign up is NOW.
So Google it Lizzie and check it out!!
We are so excited.
Space is limited and it’s going to sell out fast–half of our teaching staff wants to go–LOL!!
Have the best day ever!!
Namaste!!
Taylor
November 8th, 2008 at 5:53 pm
I love your site and totally get what you are saying 100%. BUT, I’m having trouble grabbing that brass ring when it’s not in front of me. I used to practice every single day - at your studios more often than not. Long story short, four years ago I moved an hour away. Closest studio 45 minutes away. Got divorced, am now a single mother of a 2 1/2 year old. I wish I could say I was a super-mom but I’m not. I get frustrated on a daily basis and snap at her because I know I’m not centered. I have a nanny who is wonderful, but I hate leaving my daughter with someone else while I work. I go to the gym because they have a great day care, but it’s not the same and my body doesn’t feel right. Help - any advice?????