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Archive for February, 2010

“Why waste a second not loving who you are?”

Natasha Bedingfield

“If we really love ourselves, everything in our life works.”

Louise Hay

“You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”

Buddha

“Love yourself first and everything falls into line.”

Lucille Ball

“For me, it might sound cliche, but beauty for me really does start on the inside. It’s like a state of mind, a state of love if you will. Then, whatever you can do on the outside is all like a bonus.”

Queen Latifah

“Our body is a vehicle for awakening. Treat it with care.”

Buddha

“Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson

The other day my husband proclaimed:  “Well I did it.  I’ve gained 11 pounds back!  Now I just have five more pounds to go.  I’d like to gain five more pounds.”

Super-moms and Super-women everywhere, together now:  LOL!

Philippe had lost weight while we taught The Prana Cleanse™ (twice) and was super-happy it was re-appearing again.

“The five pounds.”  How many times have I heard this from a Super-mom/Super-woman?

“If I could only lose five pounds, then I’d be happy.”

“It’s just these last five pounds—they are really distracting me.  When I lose them, then I will do everything I’ve been wanting to do.  I will be who I want to be.”
How many times has your weight or something to do with your body distracted you from following your heart and your dreams?
And what is REALLY going on here?

The fact that my sweet husband, bless his heart, was doing the “five pound thing” on the other end of the spectrum got me thinking—wondering, Super-mom style.

What would the world be like if everyone, right now, loved their body AS IT IS NOW.  Not in five pounds, not in twenty pounds, not in a week or a month or when you fit into this or that.

Body discontent is pretty rampant and I’d like to help do something about it.

You can help.

Come together, Super-people, and share your experience on this topic.  Be open and honest and fearless and let’s flush this out for once and all.

And have some perspective Super-women…some Super-men out there are wishing to weigh five pounds MORE.

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My two cents is that a regular yoga practice will shift your body image and overall attitude forever.  I’ve seen it happen countless times and continue to enjoy seeing this transformation in my students on a daily basis.

I also believe that incorporating more raw, un-processed foods in your life will have the same effect.  If you are putting processed, disconnected foods into your body, of course you will feel disconnected from your body and yourself.  And disconnection from ourselves is what causes us to be distracted by “the five pounds”–which is actually an illusion—a metaphor for something else.
Philippe and I have made it super-easy for you to enjoy more live, unprocessed foods in your day-to-day life by opening The Prana Raw Café at 292 Centre Street, Newton Corner (3 doors down from Prana Power Newton—on the corner where the rug store used to be).

It doesn’t matter if you know what raw vegan is—the foods we serve at The Prana Café’ are so delicious (pizza, pasta, burgers, sandwiches, burritos, nachos, big salads, soups, juices, smoothies, the best desserts ever, and more) that you’ll hang out at The Prana Café’ (we have comfy couches-n-chairs, Starbucks-style as well as traditional tables and chairs) for the sheer delight of the taste of the food.

And you’ll feel so much better—physically, mentally, and emotionally.

And that, Super-people, is what it’s all about.

“Learn to enjoy every minute of your life. Be happy now. Don’t wait for something outside of yourself to make you happy in the future. Think how really precious is the time you have to spend, whether it’s at work or with your family. Every minute should be enjoyed and savored.”

Earl Nightingale

“All you have to do is get into vibrational harmony with your desire, and your desire must be given to you – and the Universe will find endless ways of bringing it to you.”

- Abraham-Hicks

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Super-mom Susan Tordella:

 

Every mom is a super mom because being a mom requires learning how to put other people’s needs ahead of our own, and management skills – of our emotions, of other people, and of a home.

My four kids were born in seven years by the time I was 29 years old. This was a blessing and a challenge. After having three children in three and a half years, I realized two things: to surrender to their needs because we were outnumbered; and to get help through parenting groups.

My children have given me so many gifts that I feel privileged to be their mother. Even though raising our kids required a lot of work, time and money, the rewards are worth it.

The most valuable gift they gave me was to learn patience, to slow down and wait for them to learn. They were so patient with me while I learned parenting skills – how to set reasonable boundaries with them and be kind, firm and consistent. The journey was never smooth or straight. How boring would that be!?

Even though sometimes motherhood was overwhelming, I cherish the days I spent doing things together as a family – cooking, eating and cleaning up together; going places – as simple as taking walks or going to the pool; doing crafts and chores – yes, even chores; reading and playing together on a regular day; supporting each other; laughing and telling stories.

I did my best to love and support my children through every stage. I strived to be the best mother possible, which meant forgiving myself and them for being human. My goal was that they grow up strong and independent, able to love and be loved, to make good decisions, and to want to have a relationship with me. After age 18, it’s optional to have a relationship with parents.

Mine have chosen to have relationships with me now that they’re ages 23 to 30. They are still the most important thing in my life. They have given me a focus – to raise them, to learn positive parenting skills, and to share what I learned with other parents.

While my kids were growing up, I attended parenting support groups and then led them – following the saying, “You teach what you most need to know.” In 2010 I wrote a book on how chores teach the priceless gift of self-discipline. Learning to manage my children and sustain a positive relationship with them required me to learn the skills of a CEO – with a kind heart, a generous wallet and coaching them to believe, “You can do it.”

We taught each other, “You can do it.” Now I teach parents “You can do it.” Raising them has been the most instructive, challenging, rewarding, and fun task of my life, with the longest lasting consequences. We do give our kids roots and wings. It requires careful tending of the soil, with water, sun, and community, followed by the perilous journey of learning to fly. What an adventure.

 

 

 

 

Susan Tordella

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K-12 Bullying awareness & prevention

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