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The US Constitution does not guarantee happiness, only the pursuit of it. You have to catch up with it yourself.” -Benjamin Franklin, Printer, Author, Scientist, Diplomat and Promoter of Collective Voluntary Action

“If I had my life to live over, I would have eaten the popcorn in the ‘good’ living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.” -Erma Bombeck

Happiness is like jam. You can’t spread it around without getting a little on yourself.

“The happiest people seem to be those who have no particular reason for being happy except that they are so.” -William Inge

“Happiness is not a station you arrive at, but a manner of traveling.” -Margaret B. Runbeck

My one-year-old son, Phoenix, was on the loose in my office. A cabinet was open where office supply and packing stuff lives, and he found…the bubble wrap.

I don’t even know exactly how to describe the joy with which he received this tube of bubble wrap. It was as if heaven’s doors had opened.

He squealed in delight and began throwing the bubble wrap and retrieving it. Throwing it and retrieving it. Then wapping it on the ground…wap wap wap. And again.

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“If I had my life to live over, I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.” -Erma Bombeck

“If I had my life to live over, I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while living life. -Erma Bombeck

“If I had my life to live over, I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn’t show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime. -Erma Bombeck

“If I had my life to live over, I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.” -Erma Bombeck

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Super-Mom Betsy Parsons:

I expected motherhood to change me.  How could it not?  Everything was new.  But what I didn’t expect was that motherhood would strip me bare – drop me to rock bottom – force me to face that I had lost myself – demand that I pick up the shattered bits of me and piece myself back together.  It was all at once brutal and gratifying.  I am grateful for all of it.  I have learned who I am and how great my support system is.  I learned how absolutely wonderful my husband is, what a fantastic dad he is, and what a loving and supportive family surround us.  It’s not just me who is a super mom.  It’s my husband, my mom and dad, and my mother and father-in-law who make up this super family.  Each one of us plays an important role. Life is a tremendous gift, and we were all starkly reminded of that during the first six weeks of my daughter’s life. We almost lost her.  The first six weeks of her life were spent in the NICU.  She was a full term baby but a very sick one.  After she came home, every milestone was carefully watched.   She thrived.  And I almost missed it because I was worried about what could be wrong.  It was 9 months later when I started to splinter apart.  She was walking and I was cracking – emotions needed to be expressed.  I needed to feel again.  Not surprising, but I hadn’t been taking care of myself.  I was just trying to make it through a minute, then an hour, and a full day.  I wasn’t taking care of myself.  I wasn’t sleeping well.  I was sleepwalking.  I rationalized that all of this was well within a first-time mom response (ha!).   Eventually, I was diagnosed with PTSD and got help.  I began to piece myself back together.  It took another full year for me to hear the stirrings of my voice.  It’s been over two years, and just recently I realized that I am whole again.  I experienced such joy in finding myself.    I had really missed me!  But losing myself and finding an improved version had taken hold – makes me so grateful for the journey.  It has allowed me freedom to be myself, to slow down and enjoy the moments of motherhood, to rely on my family to play significant roles raising my daughter, to trust, and to embrace the unexpected.  It’s often what I need most!  I’m so thankful for my super family – including my husband who is embracing his role as stay-at-home dad!  Collectively, we’re a super team with a super daughter.